Classes & Events

Self Serve provides sex ed for grown ups through everyday advice, weekly classes on sex and relationships and private workshops and trainings.  Whether you’re looking for relationship advice one-on-one, planning a girls night in party for friends, or if you’re looking for sexuality cultural competency training for your office, we can help.  Check out upcoming events below, and scroll to future months to see more…

We encourage you to sign up for events about a week in advance.  Some classes sell out in advance, and some may be canceled if a minimum are not booked in advance.  Call the shop with any questions at 505-265-5815.

At the shop, at sex toy parties and in our workshops, we quickly learned that people need to tell their secrets–secrets that when left untold foster more secrecy and shame. We realized that there are too few forums for communication and problem-solving that address these so-called “bedroom secrets” outside the bedroom. In today’s world, where doctor’s appointments last 15 minutes and medical school coursework rarely covers sexuality, we recognized a compelling need for safe, thorough, healthy advice and resources on sex without all the pop culture hype and anti-woman imagery.

To end the shame and silence around sex, we aim to help people to see their bodies and desires as beautiful, sexual, positive, strong and healthy. We create unique spaces for fun and learning, helping our customers learn about healthy sexuality in a safe, supportive environment.

We don’t like the word “sexpert,” but we want every grown-up to feel she can be her own expert. There are no universal truths, except that you are an individual with your own distinctive needs, desires and feelings. We want to help you find your own truths.