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There's
always something new happening at Self Serve! Check out the Self
Serve calendar for sex toy store events, classes
and community nights. In-store fun includes toy
parties, sex workshops and
LGBT events.
Go
directly to the Calendar
Adult
Education (and we do mean "Adult")
All
of our sex workshops and other classes are 1 1/2 hours long and a lot
of fun. Topics range from exploring the G-Spot to Intro to Sensation Play.
Call the store or email
for detailed descriptions.
Community
Nights
Self
Serve provides space for community happenings such as queer events and
other celebrations. Our Shop Talk nights are free gatherings where we'll
talk about issues that matter in a safe, supportive environment. Bring
questions, stories, experiences and an open mind.. Check our calendar
or ask us about planning an event for your group. There's plenty
to celebrate throughout the year, so join us!
Self
Serve Calendar of Events
Our
calendar is the place to look for sex toy store events, classes
and community nights. In-store fun includes sex
toy parties, sex workshops
and LGBT events.
To
sign up for a class or workshop, submit the form below
Please Note:
Most classes require a minimum
number of participants & we certainly have limited space. Please pre-register
if you know you want to attend a class. We are sad when we have to tell
folks a class is canceled due to lack of participation. So sign up early
& more learning shall be had by all!
Summer/Fall,
2008
| OCTOBER |
| Date |
Event |
Fee |
Facilitator |
Description |
Thursday
Oct 2
7:30pm
Sign up...
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Sex
& Aging |
$15 |
James Zacharias |
Do you wonder
how relationships will change as you age? This workshop will focus
on the essential balance of intimacy and eroticism in maintaining
healthy and satisfying sexuality regardless of age. We will address
both the joys and challenges encountered with our changing bodies.
About Jim Zacharias,
Ph.D.:
Jim is a sex therapist and licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.
His career in sexuality has spanned three decades including teaching
Sex Therapy at the University of Denver. Currently he conducts a
private practice in Albuquerque working with individuals and couples. |
Sunday
Oct 5
12:00 - 1:30pm
Sign up...
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The
Nia Technique: Fall in Love with Being in Your Body
At
Studio Sway,
105 Jefferson NE |
$15 |
Beth O’Nell,
M.Ed.,
black belt Nia instructor |
In this 90
minute workshop, participants will learn what it means to Dance
through Life with increased awareness to our sensations in every
move we make. After a brief discussion, we'll dance a Nia Technique
class, which is a mind/body/spirit fitness class for holistic wellness.
Sexual health
includes conscious awareness of every part of our healthy, sensual,
moving bodies. Experience the Joy of Movement. Nia is a barefoot
class that promotes strength and cardiovascular conditioning, so
come prepared to sweat and move. Movers and shakers of all fitness
abilities are welcome; Nia is adaptable for every body. |
Monday
Oct 6
7:30pm
Sign up...
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Come
Together:
Toys for Couples |
$15 |
Tara |
For many
of us, vibrators are very private instruments, to be used for solo
pleasure exclusively. The truth is that vibrations feel good to
most people, and toys can be additionally satisfying when used with
a partner. There are some elements to carefully consider when picking
out an intimate accessory to share.
This workshop
will explore options for couples to use together including cock
rings, vibrators, restraints and more. |
Wednesday
Oct 8
7:30pm
Sign up...
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Finding
Your Pelvic Floor, and Learning How to Use It! |
$15 |
Celeste |
The pelvic
floor is a powerhouse of pleasure if you know how to access it.
Learn a series of Pilates based “sexercises” to enhance
your sex life by strengthening the core muscles in your pelvis.
With increased awareness, control, and strength your orgasms are
bound to be stronger and longer!
Please bring
a yoga mat or blanket for floor work.
|
Thursday
Oct 9
7:30pm
Sign up...
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Backdoor Lovers: Intro to Anal Sex |
$15 |
Matie |
You're not the only person wondering about anal play – it's one of
our most requested classes! We know many people are
searching for more guidance about anal play (thanks, Google
Analytics!) Anal sex is one of the latest taboos for many adults.
Had a negative experience before? Learning new techniques
could make anal play your new favorite activity. It should never
hurt, and despite the stereotypes, it is for everyone. Male,
Female, straight, queer or whatever – your ass is filled with a
wealth of nerve endings just going to waste without stimulation.
Come learn how to enjoy your backside even more. We'll provide
techniques on relaxation, great anal-safe toys, lubricant options,
an intro to the prostate and bust myths around your butt.
|
Wednesday
Oct 15
7:30pm
Sign up...
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Shoulder Massage:
How to Rub People the Right Way |
$15 |
Pam |
Most of us hold LOTS of tension in our necks and shoulders.
Learn tips & techniques of tender touch to share with your
partner(s), friends, and family to help them relax & feel better.
They'll love it! Topics covered include: basic anatomical
landsmarks of the neck & shoulders, what's a muscle knot &
what causes them, ways to release knots, and habits to change
and adopt to have less neck & shoulder tension. No special tools
needed. Share loving, healing touch anytime, anywhere.
|
Thursday
Oct 16
7:30pm
Sign up...
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BJ 101 |
$15 |
Aaron |
Brush up on oral skills! Make blow jobs more fun & exciting for
both parties… Reserve a spot… This class usually sells out!
Please help us welcome our *newest* teacher, an enthusiastic
lover and oral master, Aaron!
|
Oct 17–19
|
Rio Grande Leather |
$15 |
see website |
Albuquerque's leather community once again is planning an
exciting weekend of education, entertainment and a contest to
choose the next Mr. and Ms. Rio Grande Leather. Sandia
Courtyard Hotel & Convention Center (formerly Howard Johnson)
at 10300 Hotel Avenue NE.
|
Wednesday
Oct 22
7:30pm
Sign up...
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Brickhouse
Betties |
FREE |
Eve |
There's a
lot of skinny hype and unhealthy beauty standards out there, now
let's debunk it. Join us for this popular, body-positive discussion.
Shop Talk is an opportunity to talk about issues that matter to
us in a safe, supportive environment. Bring questions, stories,
experiences and an open mind.
|
Thursday
Oct 23
7:30pm
Sign up...
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The Anatomy of Male Pleasure |
$15 |
Tara |
We are often told that satisfying men is easy: show up naked.
For those of us interested in more delicate nuances, this
workshop will seek to demystify the male body and sexual mind.
Participants will be challenged to discover new ways to enjoy
themselves and their partner. Topics to include prolonging
techniques, communication, and anatomical review.
|
Wednesday
Oct 29
7:30pm
Sign up...
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Women’s
Self Defense |
$15 |
Lu Ann |
This class
is specifically designed for the self-defense needs of women. Emphasis
is placed on avoiding dangerous situations through self presentation,
self awareness, awareness of surroundings and developing inner 'radar'. The physical
techniques taught are tailored to the strengths of women's bodies
and the types of attacks women are more likely to experience. The
class is taught in a safe, supportive environment with individual
attention from the instructor. |
| NOVEMBER |
| Date |
Event |
Fee |
Facilitator |
Description |
Wednesday
Nov 5
7:30pm
Sign up...
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Assume
the Position |
$15 |
Molly & Matie |
Assume the
Position
People are constantly looking for advice on new and different positions.
We will provide you with tips and techniques for incorporating new
sex positions into your routine. Moving around can make all the
difference. Share intimacy in a new way, feel sex at a new angle,
or at least take the weight off those wrists and knees! |
Thursday
Nov 6
7:30pm
Sign up...
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Women’s
Self Defense |
$15 |
Lu Ann |
This class
is specifically designed for the self-defense needs of women. Emphasis
is placed on avoiding dangerous situations through self presentation,
self awareness, awareness of surroundings and developing inner 'radar'.
The physical
techniques taught are tailored to the strengths of women's bodies
and the types of attacks women are more likely to experience. The
class is taught in a safe, supportive environment with individual
attention from the instructor. |
Wednesday
Nov 12
7:30pm
Sign up...
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Burlesque
Basics
Plus
a special guest will be in attendance for your education and entertainment! |
$20 |
Cookie Fortune |
Learn the
tricks of the trade from twirling those titillating tassels to the
bump and grind with Cookie Fortune of Bella Donna Burlesque.
Tips on how to artfully remove those delicate items that have become
characteristic of classic Burlesque routines!
Learn secrets about the striptease and how you can move your body
in a seductive and flattering way that is appropriate for all body
types. She will also expose you to props such as feather boas, canes,
hats and fans as well as opera-length gloves & thigh-highs.
You will learn the basics of putting together a fabulous routine.
A special guest will be in attendance for your education and entertainment!
Includes a set of handmade pasties! |
Please
Note:
All class reservations require a credit card number to reserve
a space. We will not charge your card unless you are a no-show.
You can reserve online, over the phone or in person at the shop.
Please provide credit card number, phone number, email and number
of people in your reservation. To reserve space online, please
provide a phone number and we'll confirm your credit card over
the phone. You can pre-pay in full if you prefer not to use a
credit card.
Any cancellations
or changes must be made at least 24 hours in advance of classes.
If you do not cancel 24 hours in advance, you will be charged
the full class price. Space is limited, so reserve early! Thanks
for your cooperation. We don't want to turn away anymore enthusiastic
students because of no-shows!
Self Serve: (505) 265.5815 Hours
and Location
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