Classes & Events

Upcoming Events: The List

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Date/Time Event
09/24/14
7:30 pm - 9:00 pm
Swinging for Seniors
Self Serve, Albuquerque NM
09/29/14
7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
UNM Sex Week: Reid Mihalko's "How to be a Gentleman AND Get Laid"
UNM Sub, Albuquerque NM
10/01/14
7:30 pm - 9:00 pm
Reid Mihalko's "Negotiating Successful Threesomes"
Self Serve, Albuquerque NM
10/02/14
7:30 pm - 9:00 pm
BJs and Beyond with Reid Mihalko
Self Serve, Albuquerque NM
10/07/14
7:30 pm
Interactive Muff Diving
Self Serve, Albuquerque NM
10/14/14
7:30 pm - 9:00 pm
Lapdance for Lovers
Self Serve, Albuquerque NM
10/22/14
7:30 pm - 9:00 pm
Keeping it Hot in a Long Term Relationship
Self Serve, Albuquerque NM
10/29/14
7:30 pm - 9:00 pm
Yoga for Hot Sex
Self Serve, Albuquerque NM
11/05/14
7:30 pm - 9:00 pm
BDsM 101
Self Serve, Albuquerque NM
11/07/14
8:30 pm - 10:00 pm
Mindful Sex
Self Serve, Albuquerque NM
11/11/14
7:30 pm - 9:00 pm
Mastering the BJ Interactive Skills
Self Serve, Albuquerque NM
11/19/14
7:30 pm - 9:00 pm
Tantric Orgasms
Self Serve, Albuquerque NM
12/02/14
7:30 pm - 9:00 pm
Mastering the BJ Interactive Skills
Self Serve, Albuquerque NM
12/04/14
7:30 pm - 9:00 pm
Sex and Self Love for Survivors
Self Serve, Albuquerque NM

Sex Ed for Grown-Ups

Self Serve provides everyday advice, weekly classes on sex and relationships and private workshops and trainings. Whether you’re looking for relationship advice one-on-one, planning a Girls’ Night In party for friends, or  you’re looking for sexuality cultural competency training for your office, we can help. Check out our upcoming events below, or plan ahead; we tend to schedule three months out.

We encourage you to sign up for events about a week in advance. Some classes do sell out in advance, and some may be canceled if under-booked. Call the shop with any questions at 505-265-5815.

Sharing Secrets

Molly-TeachingAt the shop, at sex toy parties and in our workshops, we quickly learned that people need to tell their secrets—secrets which when left untold foster shame, and more secrecy.

There are too few forums for problem-solving and communication skills to address these so-called “bedroom secrets” outside the bedroom. In today’s world, where doctor’s appointments last 15 minutes and medical school coursework rarely covers sexuality, we recognized a compelling need for safe, thorough, healthy advice and resources on sex without all the pop culture hype and anti-woman imagery.

To end the shame and silence around sex, we aim to help people to see their bodies and desires as beautiful, sexual, positive, strong and healthy. We create unique spaces for fun and learning, helping our customers learn about healthy sexuality in a safe, supportive environment.

We don’t like the word “sexpert,” but we want every grown-up to feel she can be her own expert. There are no universal truths, except that you are an individual with your own distinctive needs, desires and feelings. We want to help you find your own truths.