Classes & Events

Upcoming Events: The List


Date/Time Event
7:30 pm - 9:00 pm
Keeping It Hot In A Long Term Relationship
Self Serve, Albuquerque NM
7:30 pm - 9:00 pm
Mastering the BJ: Interactive Skills
Self Serve, Albuquerque NM
All Day
Self Serve's 8th Birthday Party!
Self Serve, Albuquerque NM
7:30 pm - 9:00 pm
Going Down Like A Pro: Tips for Pleasuring The V
Self Serve, Albuquerque NM
7:30 pm - 9:00 pm
From Flaccid To Fantastic! Firming Up With Oriental Medicine
Self Serve, Albuquerque NM

Sex Ed for Grown-Ups

Self Serve provides everyday advice, weekly classes on sex and relationships and private workshops and trainings. Whether you’re looking for relationship advice one-on-one, planning a Girls’ Night In party for friends, or  you’re looking for sexuality cultural competency training for your office, we can help. Check out our upcoming events below, or plan ahead; we tend to schedule three months out.

We encourage you to sign up for events about a week in advance. Some classes do sell out in advance, and some may be canceled if under-booked. Call the shop with any questions at 505-265-5815.

Sharing Secrets

Molly-TeachingAt the shop, at sex toy parties and in our workshops, we quickly learned that people need to tell their secrets—secrets which when left untold foster shame, and more secrecy.

There are too few forums for problem-solving and communication skills to address these so-called “bedroom secrets” outside the bedroom. In today’s world, where doctor’s appointments last 15 minutes and medical school coursework rarely covers sexuality, we recognized a compelling need for safe, thorough, healthy advice and resources on sex without all the pop culture hype and anti-woman imagery.

To end the shame and silence around sex, we aim to help people to see their bodies and desires as beautiful, sexual, positive, strong and healthy. We create unique spaces for fun and learning, helping our customers learn about healthy sexuality in a safe, supportive environment.

We don’t like the word “sexpert,” but we want every grown-up to feel she can be her own expert. There are no universal truths, except that you are an individual with your own distinctive needs, desires and feelings. We want to help you find your own truths.