What’s New at Self Serve?  A lot!

Summer has brought so many new and exciting things to Self Serve!  Read on for an exclusive peek into the shiny new things that await you here at the store. New Toys! The Eroscillator The Eroscillator is a powerful, one-of-a-kind toy that oscillates instead of vibrating.  This delightfully unique sensation is gentle and intense at […]

SUMMERFEST 2015! One Day Sale!

Join us for the biggest day in Nob Hill all summer! We’re offering a Buy One Get One Half Off ALL Vibrators sale! One day only! Self Serve will be open late until 10 pm. *Central will be closed to car traffic, so use surrounding streets to get here. You can park along the surrounding […]

Self Serve’s Sex Tip Competition

Do you have some amazing bedroom moves you grace the world with? Share the love! Self Serve is on a mission to help people be better lovers, have more bedroom confidence and enjoy more pleasure! If you have stunning sex tips and moves, we would love to hear them so we can compile all this […]

Celebrate with Self Serve During Albuquerque Pride!

Pride is one of our favorite events of the year because we get to celebrate the amazing, beautiful people in the Albuquerque community who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer/questioning, intersex and asexual. Self Serve is so blessed to be a part of that community and we love to give back to community members […]

Join Albuquerque Kinksters at Spring Pan(demonium) !

The New Mexico Leather League presents Spring Pan(demonium) April 24th-25th at Hotel Cascada! Spring Pan is a gathering of kinky folks in and around New Mexico to get together, build community, skill share and play! From the New Mexico Leather League website: “We are back with a splash for this years Spring Pan! Help us […]

Diversity and Representation in Sex Education

The field of sex education has seen an uptick in discussion around the topic of representation of people of color in the industry. A few organizations, such as the Women of Color Sexual Health Network and LTASEX, are working to create community and structure to empower sex positive professionals of color to have a stronger […]

Sex Tips Galore on Sex Nerd Sandra!

Sex Nerd Sandra did some good work for humanity by interviewing a bus full of sex geeks on their favorite sex and relationship tips. Self Serve Store Manager Hunter was on the bus and gave Sandra her $0.02 on what tip someone can consider to improve the sex they’re having. CROWDSOURCING LOVE AND SEX! Coming […]

Self Serve’s 2015 Alternative Valentines Guide!

Valentine’s day is almost upon us. Whether the holiday makes you feel weak in the knees or green around the gills, Self Serve wants to help you make the most of it by cluing you in to all the hippest happenings in Burque this week! Read on for some creative ideas about how to make […]

Self Serve is asking for your help. Can you share or donate to our GoFundMe Page?

  Self Serve is a sex-positive alternative to the old-school adult store. We believe sex is healthy and pleasure is good for you. Since 2007 we have  created safe space for people to explore their desires and discover endless possibilities for pleasure and healing. AND we’re having a hard time keeping our space safe from vandalism. In […]

Self Serve on KOB

  KOB was kind enough to cover the vandalism we have been experiencing at Self Serve. Self Serve on KOB The incredible news is that the comments are mostly positive! That NEVER happens and feels so good for us to experience this support from our community!

Self Serve is Hiring!

Join our small, hardworking team of sex educators! You have the opportunity to help people feel better every day, and create a sex positive space unlike anything else in New Mexico. Self Serve is hiring two part time/on-call Sales Associate/Sex Educators. This position is primarily for staffing weekend shifts in the shop on Saturday and […]

Upon leaving Self Serve as owner…

To My Self Serve Family, It is with pride, joy, and some sadness that I write to share some big Self Serve news. This fall, I am transitioning to a part-time role at the shop as I shift my focus to earning my Master’s degree in Social Work from New Mexico Highlands University. I am so […]

In Defense of UNM Sex Week

As one of the co-creators of UNM’s inaugural Sex Week, Self Serve Sexuality Resource Center is saddened and deeply disappointed to see UNM administration apologize for offering clear and empowering sex education to students.  Sexual violence, consent and safer sex are critical issues for today’s young adults.  If we refuse them access to education and […]

Self Serve Sponsors UNM’s First Sex Week

The University of New Mexico’s Women’s Resource Center and Self Serve Sexuality Toys host UNM’s first Sex Week. This year’s theme focuses on sex-positive education with an emphasis on preventing sexual assault. In light of the recent sexual assault incidents associated with UNM, we feel compelled to help educate UNM students on how to navigate […]

A Customer Tells Their Experience in our Interactive BlowJob Skills Class

If you’ve ever wondered what a Self Serve class is like, check out this account that a customer published on her blog! If you want to sign up for an upcoming class, click here. Since I spend summers alone in Santa Fe, NM, I often look for things to do by myself. Alone but not […]

Ask Self Serve: What’s the Deal with BV?

Q. What is bacterial vaginosis? It’s a big problem for me and my other female friends. Help please! — A. Bacterial vaginosis is an infection caused by an imbalance in your normal (healthy) vaginal bacteria. It’s the most common vaginal infection women ages 15-44 experience, so you’re not alone! BV symptoms range from nothing, to white/gray discharge, […]