Toy Review Tuesday: Cuddle Gspot Vibe

New Product: Cuddle Gspot Vibe Price: $69.00                   The Reviewer Said:  “The shape was fantastic, good for both internal and external use. It actually got toward my G-spot and other internal nerve centers. Externally, it was really easy to have vibration wherever I wanted it. It’s a […]

Toy Review Tuesday: Smile Clitoral Vibrator

New Product: Smile Clitoral Vibrator Price: $59.00                   The Reviewer Said:  “The shape is ideal to hold in the palm, very ergonomic. Running it horizontally and vertically along my labia ROCKED MY WORLD. The nub provides more exact vibration, stimulation, and pressure to wherever you put it.” […]

Toy Review Tuesday: Honeybee Lotion Bars

New Product: Honeybee Lotion Bar Price: $12.95     The Reviewer Said:  “My desert skin loves it! Lotion is too thin and doesn’t moisturize enough, and oil feels great but definitely leaves the skin oily. This was the perfect balance for me. It left my skin soft and moisturized and smelling delicious!” Features: Your choice […]

Our Brand New Penis Toy – A Video Introduction

Below is a video of our brand new penis toy,  Pulse by Hot Octopus. Once we got it out of the packaging, we couldn’t help but notice that once you put it on a penis (or a dildo) it looks strikingly similar to a helmet. Then we decided to make a video about it. Enjoy!

Toy Review Tuesday: Aneros Peridise Anal Set

New Product: Aneros Peridise Anal Set Price: $79.95     The Reviewer Said:  “It feels amazing! I was skeptical that a small, oddly shaped butt plug could make me feel things that other plugs couldn’t, but wow! I immediately felt more aroused through heightened anal sensations. It totally increased my arousal and helped me reach […]

Toy Review Tuesday – The Hand Solo Vibrating Masturbator

New Product: Hand Solo Vibrating Masturbator Price: $39.95             The Reviewer Said: “This toy was great—way better than masturbation without a toy. I loved the vibration, which made this toy was really enjoyable.””This toy is completely unique compared to other masturbation toys.” Features: Black silicone sleeve Nubby textured inside 7-speed […]

Ask Self Serve – Performance Anxiety and Penis Training

Question: He has no problem getting hard – until he’s about to put it in me. I know it’s in his head, not physical. How can I help? — Answer: Thank you for your question. It’s common for guys to go through different phases of erectile health and stamina. There are several stereotypes that if guys […]

Celebrate Pussy Riot! Documentary at the Guild

Pussy Riot: A Punk Prayer Mar 19 to Mar 20 Wednesday and Thursday 4:30, 6:30, 8:30 Dir. Mike Lerner & Maxim Pozdorovkin – 2013 – 90m – In Honor of Women’s Month ADVANCE TICKETS WILL BE AVAILABLE AT SELF SERVE TOYS  NOW! Tickets:   4:30 matinee $5  6:30, 8:30 shows  $8 general / $5 students with ids and seniors over […]

Toy Review Tuesday: The We Vibe 4

New Product:  We Vibe 4 Price: $154.95     The Reviewer Said:  “Unlike previous models, you can now go back and forth through the functions if you missed “the spot.” It has a naughty looking devil tail for the G-spot stimulator that is flatter on the bottom making it much easier for penetration and couples […]

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Romantic Getaways in New Mexico

Self Serve makes the best romantic hotels in New Mexico even more romantic…   Self Serve has partnered with Heritage Hotels to offer romance packages that go above and beyond.  At Hotel Chimayo de Santa Fe, Hotel St. Francis, Hotel Albuquerque at Old Town and other New Mexico hotels you can find your sexy Valentine’s […]

Toy Review Tuesday: Adventure Triple Stim Vibrator

New Product: Adventure Triple Stim Vibrator Price: $99.95               The Reviewer Said:  “This toy is well designed and does something that no other toy on the the market currently does. It vibrates internally and externally on your rosebud and clitoris all at the same time and can be  used […]

Self Serve’s Alternative Albuquerque Valentines Guide

Whether you love it or hate it – Self Serve wants you to have the most fulfilling Valentines, even if that means not celebrating it!       It’s our annual tradition to put together a guide for the month of February that finds cool events to celebrate love, self love, sex and masturbation.   […]

Toy Review Tuesday: Palm Baller

New Product:  Palm Baller Price: $19.95     The Reviewer Said:  “It feels great because it allows for multiple sensations in one toy, because it has two different-shaped openings”  “I would be more than happy if my wife used it on me.  I also feel like because of the two open ends, the way it can be […]

SELF SERVE IS HIRING!

Join our small, hardworking team of sex educators! You have the opportunity to help people feel better every day, and create a sex positive space unlike anything else in New Mexico.   Self Serve is hiring a part time/on-call Sales Associate/Sex Educator. This position is primarily for staffing weeknight and Sunday classes and Saturday shifts […]

Toy Review Tuesday: Pyxis Finger Vibe

New Product: The Pyxis Finger Vibe Price: $74.95   The Reviewer Said: “It has intuitive functions and design. The button was super easy to push while wearing the vibe, the charge lasted several uses, and it was easy to charge (USB).””It was strong, easy to use, and delivered vibrations across a flat, broad surface.” Features: […]

Ask Self Serve – Using a Clit Pump

Question: I just saw an amazing video of a woman having sex with another woman via clitoral penetration! As an owner of a very big clitoris, I was extremely turned on! Even though I think I’m as big as the girl in the video, my clit doesn’t get anywhere near as hard as hers. I’ve […]

Toy Review Tuesday: Revel Body Vibrator

Revel Body Vibrator $179.00   The Reviewer Said: “It’s like having 2 (at least!) vibrators in one toy. The low frequency settings are thumpy and powerful. The high frequency settings are buzzy and more like ‘mainstream’ vibrators.”“It reminds me of someone using their tongue on your vulva, kind of like oral sex.” Features: Wider vibration […]

Toy Review Tuesday: Pin-Ups Tin

New Product: Bombshell Pin-Ups Tin $34.95           The Reviewer Said: “I was really drawn in by the wonderful packaging!! A beautiful, discreet metal tin with a classic pinup model on the front! I really appreciated how quiet the little pocket-sized vibe was and the slight texture to it as well. ” […]