Join Albuquerque Kinksters at Spring Pan(demonium) !

The New Mexico Leather League presents Spring Pan(demonium) April 24th-25th at Hotel Cascada! Spring Pan is a gathering of kinky folks in and around New Mexico to get together, build community, skill share and play! From the New Mexico Leather League website: “We are back with a splash for this years Spring Pan! Help us […]

Violet Wand Safety Guidelines

Electrical play with a violet wand can be super fun!  It is also a serious undertaking and one that you should research thoroughly before the sparks fly!  Here are the tips we put together for our customers. Any electrical play has inherent risk, and there’s plenty of information about violet wand safety.  Some of it […]

Ask Self Serve – No Sex in a Kinky Triad

Question: I’m in a triad, and I love both my partners. We’re also kinky, and one of my partners is submissive. We have an intimate relationship, but no “sex”. How do we fix it? — Answer:  A first step toward happy, sexual loving is to find out why you aren’t having sex. Is it a […]

Ask Self Serve – Toys for 50 Shades fans

Question: What product does Self Serve Toys recommend to 50 Shades fans looking for a first time product? For the experienced fans? – Answer: 50 Shades of Grey has made its mark on readers and has opened up a whole new world of sexual exploration. There’s lots of debate around the way the book portrays […]