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Sexual Health   index...

Columbia University’s health Q&A Internet site
www.goaskalice.com
This is a wonderful site with a focus on sexual health. The site contains very good responses to common questions and prevailing myths about sex.

Nurture your Nature
www.nurtureyournature.org/
The Nurture Your Nature program is a resource for both women and their health care providers with a focus on menopausal women.

American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists
www.aasect.org

The Society for Human Sexuality
www.sexuality.org
Great site with lots of honest info on sex and sexuality.

Afraid to Ask
www.afraidtoask.com/
Information and graphic photographs to answer your most personal questions

Kink Aware Professionals (KAP)
www.ncsfreedom.org/kap
Kink Aware Professionals (KAP) is dedicated to providing the community with referrals to psychotherapeutic, medical, and legal professionals who are knowledgeable about and sensitive to diverse expressions of sexuality.

Sexual Health
www.sexualhealth.com
Sex advice on all kinds of issues from disabilities and sex over 40 to STDs and women’s health.

Sue Johanson
www.talksexwithsue.com/index2.html
Canadian hero and one classy lady

MTV Think: It’s your (sex) life
www.mtv.com/thinkmtv/#/thinkmtv/sexual_health/
It’s Your (Sex) Life—A guide to safe and responsible sex that’s fun and cool

Planned Parenthood of New Mexico
www.plannedparenthood.org/new-mexico/
Sexuality Education, Healthcare Provider and fightin’ the good fight.

Scarleteen
www.scarleteen.com
Sexual information that's thorough & fun for 18 & under.

San Francisco Sex Information
www.sfsi.org/
Volunteer-run nonprofit that operates a telephone switchboard that people can call to get a free, anonymous, accurate, nonjudgmental answer to any question about sex or sexuality.

New Mexico AIDS Services
www.nmas.net/
NMAS has been providing AIDS services in New Mexico for over twenty years.

National Vulvodynia Association
www.nva.org/
A nonprofit organization for women with vulvodynia and related matters

Our Bodies Ourselves
www.ourbodiesourselves.org/
Boston Women's Health Collective creators of Our Bodies Our Selves Health Book

Albuquerque Rape Crisis Center
www.rape-crisis.org/
The Albuquerque Rape Crisis Center provides a 24-hour telephone crisis hotline, which is available 365 days a year, for anyone who calls regarding sexual assault and abuse issues.

R.A.I.N.N. - Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network
www.rainn.org/
America's only national hotline for survivors of sexual assault. The hotline 1-800-656-HOPE offers free, confidential counseling and support 24 hours a day, from anywhere in the country.

New Mexico Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.nmcadv.org/

The Network/La Red
www.thenetworklared.org/
Ending abuse in lesbian, bisexual women's and transgender communities. Acabando con el abuso en comunidades de lesbianas, de mujeres bisexuales y de gente transgénero.

Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Gender Queer   index...

NM Common Bond LGBT Community Site
www.commonbondnm.org/
Find events, organizations and your people :)

Transgender Resource Center of NM
www.tgrcnm.org
This site is dedicated to serving the transgender community of New Mexico and strives to exist as a clearing house for resources which can support, assist, educate, and advocate for the transgender population of this state and their families and loved ones.

Albuquerque Pride
www.abqpride.com/
Because every community in every city deserves our own parade & party!

Fire Womyn
firewomyn.com/
Meet your future Ex-Girlfriend at these all womyn dance parties

Southwest Gay & Lesbian Film Festival
www.closetcinema.org/
Come out of the closet to watch excellent, indy films about us!

Equality New Mexico
www.equalitynm.org
A membership organization that uses the political process to guarantee full equality and justice for LGBT and allied communities in NM.

Gendercrash
www.Gendercrash.com
Gendercrash is the intersection of the queer, transgender and gender queer communities in Boston. This site has great resources, links, LGBT writing and more.

National Center for Transgender Equality
www.nctequality.org
A social justice organization dedicated to advancing the equality of transgender people through advocacy, collaboration and empowerment.

Fairy Butch
www.fairybutch.com
Fairy Butch wrote The Ultimate Guide to Strap On Sex—a hot advice columnist, author and performer.

Eminism
www.Eminism.org
The web site for Emi Koyama, the activist/author/academic working on intersex, sex workers' rights, (queer) domestic violence, genderqueer, anti-racism, and other issues.

Camp Trans
www.camptrans.squarespace.com/
Fighting for Trans-inclusion at the Michigan’s Womyn’s Festival

Gay & Lesbian Medical Association
www.glma.org/
GLMA is working to ensure that LGBT people are treated competently and not discriminated against when they access health care.

Transgender Law
www.transgenderlaw.org/
One of the most useful sites for information on transgender law around the country

Trans-Health
www.trans-health.org/
This is an impressive site...the content is great..the articles are great...you must read this every month!

Gender.org
www.gender.org
Gender Education and Advocacy (GEA) is a national organization focused on the needs, issues and concerns of gender variant people in human society.

Intersex Society of North America
www.isna.org/
ISNA is an education, advocacy, and peer support organization which works to create a world free of shame, secrecy, and unwanted surgery for intersex people.

Transgender Warrior
www.transgenderwarrior.org/
Leslie Feinberg's site

BDSM  index...

Kinky Spot
www.kinkyspot.com/
You do not have to be kinky to find Kinkyspot a useful source of information, ideas, and references for protecting your freedom to pursue happiness in your own strange way. We are based in Albuquerque, New Mexico, and you will find links to organizations and events in the area on the “resources” page.

NM Leather League
www.nmleatherleague.org/
Informational resources for New Mexicans and visitors who are interested in leather, fetish, kink, bondage, discipline, Dominance/submission, sadism &/ or masochism, etc. The list is as endless as the human imagination and the New Mexico Leather League is dedicated to helping adults learn and explore.

TNG (The Next Generation)
www.nmtng.org/
New Mexico the Next Generation is a pansexual organization for people between the ages of 18 and 36 who are interested in, curious about or already involved in kinky and/or Leather relationships.

Fetlife
www.fetlife.com
FetLife is a free Social Network for the BDSM & fetish community.
Similar to Facebook and mySpace but run by kinksters like you and me. We think it is more fun that way. Don't you? Growing Fetlife community in Albuquerque!

Alternative Erotic Lifestyles
www.mybdsm.com/salutes/aelifestyles...
AEL is a NM pansexual organization catering to those interested in exploring alternative forms of erotic expression, including BDSM. They host excellent BDSM workshops throughout the year for affordable fees.

Domina Elle
www.dominaelle.com
Domina Elle is a Pro Domme Mistress in Denver Colorado. Even her site is hot!

Albuquerque   index...

Nob Hill
www.rt66central.com
The best neighborhood in Albuquerque, but we're not biased. Excellent restaurants, great locally owned shopping, farmer's market, parks, events and a lovely place to explore walking around Albuquerque.

Betty’s Bath and Day Spa
www.bettysbath.com
The Betty's experience will leave you nourished, relaxed, and restored. Enjoy.

Gardeners’ Guild
www.Gardenersguild.org
Promoting improved quality of life through plants and environmental practices in an urban environment.

WESST Corp
www.wesst.org
Its mission is to facilitate the start-up and growth of women and minority-owned businesses throughout the state of New Mexico, although WESST Corp's services are available to any New Mexico resident seeking to start or grow a business.

September Smith
www.septembersmith.com
September Smith is a circus burlesque performer based in Santa Fe, NM.

Duke City Derby
www.dukecityderby.com
Women’s roller derby team in Albuquerque.

Free Radicals
www.freeradicalshq.com
A greaser/political/punk store here in Duke City (Albuquerque) New Mexico. They pretty much kick ass. Great place to buy hot clothes, hosiery, handbags, jewelry, and much more fun crap!

Albuquerque Independent Business Alliance
www.keepitquerque.org/
AIBA is one of the reasons we moved to Albuquerque. The incredibly warm and generous folks of the AIBA are the kind of people that inspire you to live your life better. Go support all their businesses—they are so much better than chain stores—kind of like the difference between Thanksgiving dinner and those frozen dinners with preformed turkey you get for a dollar…dedicated to preserving and improving Albuquerque's unique character by supporting the local, indpendent businesses that bring it alive.

Small Business Development Centers, New Mexico
www.nmsbdc.org/index.html

Duke City Fix
www.dukecityfix.com/
The inside line on Albuquerque

Local IQ
www.local-iq.com/

The Weekly Alibi
www.alibi.com

New Mexico AIDS Services
www.nmas.net/

Sol Arts
www.solarts.org/

Talin Marketplace
www.talininc.com/

Hot & Sexy Sites   index...

No Fauxxx
www.nofauxxx.com/
Hot radical porn made by ladies, queers, and artists. There's nothing fake here - what you see is what you get. The models are in charge of their content and their representation. There’s something so sexy about people who call their own shots…

Deborah Sundahl, G Spot & Female Ejaculation Expert
www.isismedia.org
Deborah Sundahl is an international sex educator who specializes in teaching women and couples about the G-spot and female ejaculation. She is the leading expert and pioneer in this field. Self Serve is lucky to have Deborah teach at our store!

The Crash Pad
www.crashpadseries.com
Hot. Dyke. Porn. Shine Louise Houston's Crash Pad Series was a hit at Pornotopia 2008, and continues to make people wet every day. Get your fill with dvds from Self Serve, too.

I Feel Myself
www.ifeelmyself.com
A site dedicated to present orgasm as a real, honest and intimate experience shared with pleasure. The importance of unrepressive positive sexual attitudes can not be underestimated in creating a happy, healthy, orgasmic society. Beautiful!

Nerve.com
www.nerve.com
A hip and fun site for sexual info and stories

Positive Porn
http://www.positive-porn.com/main.html
This site provide a comprehensive guide to the wonderful world of positive porn.

Scarlet Letters
www.scarletletters.com/
Premier publishers of humanist, feminist, sex-positive, original and visionary creative and artistic work of all kinds. Unifying our erotic and sexuality content with an array of other types of work, we break boundaries and bridge gaps, crashing the genre barricades in favor of a collection of constantly updated work from some of the most inventive independent authors and artists online.

On Our Backs
www.Onourbacksmag.com
Adventures in Lesbian Sex

Pucker Up
www.puckerup.com
Anal Sex Goddess Tristan Taormino’s website. She’s fierce and cheeky
Serving the needs of Butches and Femmes

Libido Magazine
www.libidomag.com
A journal about sex that's geared to turn on your mind and your body. It's a web site (formerly a magazine) for women and men who read and think. Libido has also produced tasteful, beautiful erotic films that today’s porn lovers can actually relate to. Call us for info about their movies!

Clean Sheets
www.cleansheets.com
Founded in 1998, Clean Sheets is a premier venue for literary erotica on the Web, with over 3,000 readers a day, viewing millions of pages every month.

Zen Porn
www.zenporn.com
Sites featured on Zenporn vary, but are unified either through focus on spirituality of sex, aesthetics and simplicity of design, -- or a strong webmaster presence and fostering of community.

Activism & Talking Back   index...

Rock the Vote!
www.rockthevote.org/
It’s never too late!

Pay Attention & Register to Vote
http://www.payattention.org/

Declare Yourself!
www.declareyourself.org/index.php
Declare Yourself is a national nonpartisan, nonprofit campaign initiated in 2004 to energize and empower a new movement of young voters.

NOW
www.now.org
The largest organization of feminist activists in the United States. NOW works to eliminate discrimination and harassment in the workplace, schools, the justice system, and all other sectors of society; secure abortion, birth control and reproductive rights for all women; end all forms of violence against women; eradicate racism, sexism and homophobia; and promote equality and justice in our society.

Independent Media Center
www.indymedia.org/en/index.shtml
Indymedia is a collective of independent media ogranizations and hundreds of journalists offering grassroots, non-corporate news coverage.

Bitch Magazine
bitchmagazine.com/
Feminist Response to Pop Culture

Billboard Liberation Front
www.billboardliberation.com
Bringing you 24 years of outdoor advertising improvement!

Protest.net
www.protest.net
Protest.Net is a community of activists who are working together to create our own media. By publishing a public record of our political activities on the web we are taking a stand against the established media.

Fat! So?
www.fatso.com/
For people who don’t apologize for their size.

Confluere
www.confluere.com/
A publicity alliance of activists and artists committed to progressive social change through public education, mobilization, and artistic expression.

Women, Sex Bloggers & Feminists We Love   index...

Jamye Waxman
http://jamyewaxman.com/
Jamye Waxman, M.Ed. has been dubbed "the nexxxt generation of sex educator" by Wired.com. Waxman, who's Masters in sex education is from Widener University, is a well-known sex writer, author, blogger, video producer, host and director. Her educational porn is hot and fun. Find her films at Self Serve.

Jen Sincero
http://jensincero.com/
A thorough, smart and sassy source for sex ed!

Feministing
www.feministing.com/
A very snarky, informative and fun blog written by women

Waking Vixen ~ Audacia Ray
www.wakingvixen.com/
Waking Vixen began as Audacia Ray’s blog in 2004. Since then, Waking Vixen Productions has become a portal to and producer of smart sex culture. Her film Dacia's Love Machine was a hilarious hit at Pornotopia 2008.

Breast Gallery
www.007b.com/breast_gallery.php
Most women haven’t had the luxury of seeing a lot of “real” breasts. Breasts are used to sell things constantly, but the exposure of an actual womens breast during the midle of the superbowl causes national outrage. Men can go topless, and women still can’t breastfeed their babies in public. It’s no wonder why some women have a hard time loving the boobs they have. This site shows real womens breasts without airbrushing or fanfare. They are big, small, sagging, asymmetrical, and amazing they show that we all are different and beautiful.

Retouching
www.i-am-bored.com
Be prepared to be disturbed by this revelation. You can see just how extremely the media turn real people into imaginary sexist representations of ‘sexy’. We don’t buy it though!

Venus Zine
http://www.venuszine.com/
Women in music, art, film, fashion & diy culture

Inga Muscio
www.ingalagringa.com/index.html
Inga Muscio—fabulous feminist and author of Cunt Activist, Media, Arts

Guerrilla Girls
www.guerrillagirls.com/
The Guerrilla Girls are a group of women artists, writers, performers, film makers and arts professionals who fight sexism & discrimination.

Tiny Nibbles
www.tinynibbles.com/main.html
A kick ass and sexy blog by the kick ass and sexy Violet Blue

Our Neighborhood, Nob Hill   index...

Nob Hill
www.rt66central.com

Aqui
www.aqui-nobhill.com/

Cosmo Tapas
Map/Location

The Guild Movie Theater
www.guildcinema.com/

Gardener's Guild
www.Gardenersguild.org

Scalo Northern Italian Grill

www.scalonobhill.com/

Flying Star cafe
www.flyingstarcafe.com/

La Montanita Coop
www.lamontanitacoop.com/

O' Neill's Pub
www.oniells.com/

Old World Imports
www.oldworldimports.net/

Peacecraft
www.peacecraft.org/

Mariposa Gallery

www.mariposa-gallery.com/

New Grounds Print Workshop & Gallery
www.newgroundsprintshop.com/newgroundsprintshop/index.html

Seventh Goddess
www.seventhgoddess.com/

Friends of Self Serve   index...

And So No Sin
www.andsonosin.com
Alisia Waller is a fight and dance choreographer, a physical comedian, a dancer and stage fighter, a feminist, performance artist and amazing human being.

Athens Boys Choir
www.athensboyschoir.com
The poetry your momma warned you about.

Jamie Vasta
www.jamievasta.com
You won’t believe your eyes—the shiniest, prettiest, sparkliest art ever

Our Boston Family   index...

Center for Women & Enterprise
www.cweonline.org
Provides education, training, technical assistance and access to capital to ensure that all women, regardless of their economic status, will have the opportunity to start and run their own businesses. A Boston-based organization that helped Matie and Molly get started!

Socializing For Justice
www.socializingforjustice.org/
SoJust is for feminists, people working against racism, queer pioneers, genderbenders, environmental agitators, class activists, lefty artists and all people across Greater Boston working for justice in our neighborhoods, in our nation and beyond.

Chubrub Productions
www.chubrub.org
The multitalented and extremely cool DJ D’hana’s online home

Truth Serum Productions
www.truthserum.org
Cultural & Queer events for smart people in Boston and around the country

Inman Oasis
www.inmanoasis.com
Inman Oasis offers both Massage Therapy and Hot Tubs in a Feng Shui designed wellness center that provides the ultimate in relaxation.

Latina & Resources en Espanol   index...

Planned Parenthood Health Resources
www.plannedparenthood.org/ESPANOL/INDEX.html

Feminist Women’s Health Center
www.fwhc.org/espanol/index.htm
Site in Spanish, many resources & links

National Latina Institute for Reproductive Health
www.latinainstitute.org/background.html

Teen/Under 18 Sex Info  index...

Scarleteen
www.scarleteen.com/
...committed to providing the best contemporary teen sex ed on the net since 1998

The Coalition for Positive Sexuality
www.positive.org/
The Coalition for Positive Sexuality (CPS) is a grassroots direct-action volunteer group formed in Chicago in the spring of 1992 by high school students and members of the community. Their purpose is twofold: first, to give teens the information they need to take care of themselves and in so doing affirm their decisions about sex, sexuality, and reproductive control; second, to facilitate dialogue in and out of the public schools on condom availability and sex education.

Advocates for Youth
www.advocatesforyouth.org/youth/index.htm
Advocates for Youth is dedicated to creating programs and advocating for policies that help young people make informed and responsible decisions about their reproductive and sexual health. They provide information, training, and strategic assistance to youth-serving organizations, policy makers, youth activists, and the media in the United States and the developing world.

The National Coalition for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Youth
http://www.outproud.org/

PFLAG Parents & Friends of Lesbians & Gays
PFLAG Albuquerque
PO Box 30771
Albuquerque, NM 87190
Phone: 1-505-343-7468
Email: lanesandy@aol.com

Common Bond
Common Bond's Under 21 Youth Group
www.members.aol.com/commnbond/under21.html
PO Box 26836
Albuquerque, NM 87125
Phone: 1-505-277-3969
Helpline: 1-505-891-3647
Email: moishi@unm.edu

Go Ask Alice!
www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/
Go Ask Alice! is the health question and answer Internet service produced by Alice!, Columbia University's Health Promotion Program — a division of Health Services at Columbia.

Teen Wire
www.teenwire.com/
This award-winning Planned Parenthood website gives teens honest and medically accurate information about sexuality and relationships.

Planned Parenthood of New Mexico
www.plannedparenthood.org/new-mexico/
Planned Parenthood of New Mexico (PPNM) provides high quality, affordable reproductive health care and sexual health information - serving nearly 30,000 women, men, and teens each year. They welcome everyone - regardless of race, age, sexuality, disability, or income. PPNM medical offices are located in Albuquerque, Rio Rancho, and Santa Fe. Education programming is offered thorughout the state.

Girls Incorporated
www.girlsinc.org/gc/
Girls Incorporated is a national nonprofit youth organization dedicated to inspiring all girls to be strong, smart, and bold.

Abstinence Comes to Albuquerque
www.der.org/films/abstinence-comes-to-albuquerque.html
Abstinence Comes to Albuquerque provides a glimpse into a nationwide debate over what young people should be taught about sexuality. Through personal stories, community profiles, and expert interviews, the program highlights the differences between a strict abstinence-only-until-marriage approach and more comprehensive sexuality education.

gURL.com
www.gurl.com
From the folks who created one of the best books for teen girls. This site is a fun resource and hang out for young women and hosts great resources about changing body stuff, sex, guys and lots more.

Polyamory/Open Relationships   index...

Books

The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships &
Other Adventures, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

Opening Up, Tristan Taromino

Redefining Our Relationships: Guidelines For Responsible Open Relationships
Wendy-O Matik

Websites

Black Box Republic: Dating/friends/social website
$5/month private, secure, open-minded
www.blackboxrepublic.com

Fetlife
Dating and networking for the kinky folk
www.fetlife.com

Poly Blog
http://polyinthemedia.blogspot.com/

Tristan Taromino’s website on open relationships
www.openingup.net

Fertility Resources   index...

Hipmama
www.hipmama.com/index.php
A wicked awesome parenting site, by the goddess mother Arial Gore

Soul Cysters
http://soulcysters.com/
SoulCysters.com is the largest online community of women with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS). PCOS is the most common endocrine disorder of women, affecting as many as 1 in 10. While there is no cure for PCOS, the symptoms of PCOS can be managed with proper treatment by a qualified PCOS physican. An excellent resource for women with PCOS seeking support and community when trying to get pregnant.

Fertility Community
http://www.fertilitycommunity.com/
Lots of great discussion forums and support.

Taking Charge of Your Fertility
http://www.tcoyf.com/
One of the best books on fertility awareness, now TCOYF is a valuable website, too.

Mothering.Com Forums:

Fertility
http://www.mothering.com/discussions/forumdisplay.php?f=68

I'm Pregnant
http://www.mothering.com/discussions/forumdisplay.php?f=19

Life with a Babe
http://www.mothering.com/discussions/forumdisplay.php?f=32

Health & Healing (mostly as they relate to pregnancy & parenting)
http://www.mothering.com/discussions/forumdisplay.php?f=45

Queer Parenting
http://www.mothering.com/discussions/forumdisplay.php?f=235

Pacific Reproductive Services
https://www.pacrepro.com/index.php
The lesbian-owned sperm bank friends have used...

Vulva University Classes on Sex for Moms
http://www.houseochicks.com/classes/SexForMoms.html
Vulva University has been offering award winning, online classes since 1996, providing the online community with intelligent and thoughtful information, designed by women, for women and those that love them. Our series of classes, taught by Sex Educators, College Professors, and published authors are of the highest caliber. We've tapped into our extensive roster of folks to help us create classes and curricula that will best motivate and satisfy your intellectual curiosity. You learn at your own pace, there are no tests, and the homework is fun!

Pre-Seed Fertility-Friendly Lubricant
Pre-Seed is the clinically proven lubricant that supports conception. Most lubricants may impede conception, so consider using pre-seed next time you have fun trying.