We love how this book is written in a gender-neutral style, and includes more content for trans or otherwise gender-noncomforming readers. This edition also has a new chapter to help you sort through what you hear and see when it comes to sex from friends, family and media, including sexual media like pornography, and how to find what you think, want and feel for yourself. It includes a Yes, No, Maybe list from the Scarleteen website, and an adapted version of the Klein Grid better suited to young people. It also has content about managing cultural conflicts with sexuality, sex or relationships; making choices about relationship models; information on sex and the law, including a new guide with the basics of what to do (and what not to do) should you ever find yourself involved with the justice system; info on navigating dating or sex when technology is involved; how to get great at consent; help and support for abuse or assault survivors; and a guide to bystander intervention so we can all help better prevent or stop abuse or assault.