A compassionate, clear-eyed guide to navigating gender, boundaries, and connection through a feminist lens. Consensuality: Navigating Feminism, Gender, and Boundaries Toward Loving Relationships offers honest, thoughtful insights into what it takes to create relationships grounded in mutual respect, consent, and clarity. Author Helen Wildfell invites readers to challenge the fairytale ideals of love and instead explore real-life tools for navigating complex dynamics, especially around power, gender identity, and communication. This accessible, illustrated guide is full of relatable stories, practical advice, and affirming messages for people of all relationship orientations and gender identities. Whether you’re solo, partnered, poly, or figuring it all out, this book helps you build skills to honor your needs and the needs of those around you.

You might like this book if:

• You want a feminist, LGBTQIA+ affirming resource on healthy relationships

• You’re interested in boundary-setting, emotional awareness, and consent practices

• You’ve struggled with power dynamics, miscommunication, or unspoken expectations in relationships

• You're exploring identity, relationship styles, or want to show up more intentionally with others

You might not like this book if:

• You’re looking for a step-by-step dating manual or prescriptive relationship structure

• You want a book focused solely on monogamy or traditional romance narratives

• You prefer a purely academic or clinical approach to relationship advice

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