Nearly a decade ago, this book began teaching tens of thousands of people the joyous art of BDSM bottoming. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players.

This wonderful book illustrates that being a submissive, masochist, slave, `boy` or `girl,` or other BDSM recipient - is as much an art as topping.  It covers useful topics such as different ways of bottoming and different types of play, choosing a top, figuring out what you really want, what if something unexpected happens during a scene, and a section specifically on kink and spirituality.

Written in an easily accessible, straightforward manner, with quotes and illustrative stories, this book is short and easy to digest so you can get on with your play ecstatically enriched!