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Self Serve: Inclusive Sex Education, Pleasure Products, and Sexual Wellness Support

Self Serve is your trusted resource for sex education, pleasure tools, and body positive wellness support. We offer a curated selection of body safe toys, lubricants, lingerie, kink gear, safer sex supplies, and gender affirming products chosen to support a wide range of bodies, identities, and experience levels.

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Our mission is to make sexual health accessible, shame free, and informed by pairing high quality products with education you can trust. Whether you are curious about anatomy, building communication skills, or looking for tools that support comfort, pleasure, and connection, our resources are designed to help you explore with clarity and confidence.Every product collection is curated with body safe materials, inclusive sizing, and practical guidance in mind. Many listings include tips for choosing the right fit, how to use items safely, and ways to adapt products for different comfort levels, bodies, and relationships. From beginner friendly vibrators and harnesses to kink gear, gender affirming tools, and accessibility aids, Self Serve supports exploration at your own pace.

You can browse Just Added products, explore collections focused on kink, health, gender, and safer sex, or visit our books and classes for in depth learning. Our educators emphasize consent, communication, and body literacy so you can make informed choices that align with your needs and boundaries. Self Serve is here to offer a welcoming, educational, and inclusive space for sexual wellness, pleasure, and ongoing learning.

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LIXX DENTAL DAM-GRAPE

LIXX Flavored Dental Dams for Safer Oral Sex Banana Flavor

Loud and Lovely Vegan Leather Paddle with Loud Sound and Dual Sensation

LOVE & SEX IN THE TIME OF CORONA WITH DIRTY LOLA

Love Notes Card Set For Personalized Surprises

Love Word Magnets Set for Creative Romantic Notes

LOVING AND LIVING FIERCELY AFTER TRAUMA

Lube Shooter Targeted Personal Lubricant Applicator Syringe

1 color

Luca Mid-Rise Mesh Brief with Cheeky Butt Cutout

2 sizes

Magic Wand Cordless Rechargeable Vibrator with Silicone Head

Magic Wand Mini Cordless Rechargeable Vibrator with Silicone Head

MAKING AN IMPACT: FLOGGING, SPANKING, AND MORE

MINDFULNESS PRACTICES FOR MIND MELTING SEX AND ENERGY EXCHANGE

Mixed Latex Condoms Build Your Own Variety Pack

Mixed Non-Latex Condoms Build Your Own Variety Pack

Mood Maker Oil Based Lubricant with Botanical Aphrodisiacs

Mr. Softie Realistic Everyday Soft Packer for Comfortable Subtle Bulge

2 colors, 3 sizes

Multi-Orgasmic Couple Whole-Body Pleasure and Deeper Connection

MY JEALOUSY METHOD

Naeva Soft Floral Lingerie Chemise with Crossover Straps & Lace Trim

4 sizes

Naked at Our Age By Joan Price Real Talk on Sex and Intimacy After 60

Naked in the Woods Hemp Massage Oil Earthy Scented Aromatherapy Body Oil

NEED COMMUNITY FUNDED EMERGENCY CONTRACEPTION ONE-STEP TAB 1.5MG

NEGOTIATION, DIRTY TALK, AND HOW TO LEVEL UP YOUR SEX LIFE

New Queer Conscience by Adam Eli LGBTQ+ Activism and Allyship Guide

Self Serve: Inclusive Sex Education, Pleasure Products, and Sexual Wellness Support

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