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BANG! Masturbation for People of All Genders & Abilities is a fun, straightforward, and fully inclusive guide to self-pleasure. This illustrated manual breaks down anatomy, techniques, toys, and mindsets in a clear, shame-free way that celebrates all bodies. Inside, you’ll find sections on exploring your body for the first time, masturbation tips for trans folks by trans authors, and advice for people with physical disabilities written by disabled contributors. The book also covers the history of anti-masturbation stigma, offers data to normalize self-pleasure, and even includes suggestions for teaching kids healthy, body-positive attitudes about sexuality.
Inclusive of all genders, bodies, and abilities
Offers step-by-step techniques and toy suggestions
Written in a friendly, shame-free, and accessible tone
Includes sections specifically for trans and disabled readers
Perfect for anyone looking to improve their sexual self-knowledge
Focuses entirely on masturbation — not on partnered sex
Includes frank discussion of anatomy that may feel too explicit for some readers
Geared toward education — not intended as erotica
May feel too comprehensive if you are looking for quick tips only
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BANG! Masturbation for People of All Genders & Abilities is a fun, straightforward, and fully inclusive guide to self-pleasure. This illustrated manual breaks down anatomy, techniques, toys, and mindsets in a clear, shame-free way that celebrates all bodies. Inside, you’ll find sections on exploring your body for the first time, masturbation tips for trans folks by trans authors, and advice for people with physical disabilities written by disabled contributors. The book also covers the history of anti-masturbation stigma, offers data to normalize self-pleasure, and even includes suggestions for teaching kids healthy, body-positive attitudes about sexuality.
Inclusive of all genders, bodies, and abilities
Offers step-by-step techniques and toy suggestions
Written in a friendly, shame-free, and accessible tone
Includes sections specifically for trans and disabled readers
Perfect for anyone looking to improve their sexual self-knowledge
Focuses entirely on masturbation — not on partnered sex
Includes frank discussion of anatomy that may feel too explicit for some readers
Geared toward education — not intended as erotica
May feel too comprehensive if you are looking for quick tips only
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