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The Thriving in Sex Work Workbook is a guided companion to Lola Davina’s essential book, offering structured exercises and reflective prompts to help sex workers build practical skills, emotional resilience, and sustainable work habits. This workbook expands on the core themes of the main text, including boundary setting, financial autonomy, burnout prevention, and cultivating a healthy relationship with your work. Designed with compassion and real world insight, it provides space to explore challenges, celebrate strengths, and develop strategies for navigating the complexities of erotic labor.
This workbook offers supportive structure for anyone working toward stability, wellbeing, and longevity in the adult industry.
Lola Davina has spent more than 25 years in and around the sex industry, working as a stripper, dominatrix, porn actress, and escort over a fifteen-year period. She has earned an M.A. in Human Sexuality and an M.S. in Nonprofit Fundraising, and writes a self-care and wellness column for YNOTcam.com
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The Thriving in Sex Work Workbook is a guided companion to Lola Davina’s essential book, offering structured exercises and reflective prompts to help sex workers build practical skills, emotional resilience, and sustainable work habits. This workbook expands on the core themes of the main text, including boundary setting, financial autonomy, burnout prevention, and cultivating a healthy relationship with your work. Designed with compassion and real world insight, it provides space to explore challenges, celebrate strengths, and develop strategies for navigating the complexities of erotic labor.
This workbook offers supportive structure for anyone working toward stability, wellbeing, and longevity in the adult industry.
Lola Davina has spent more than 25 years in and around the sex industry, working as a stripper, dominatrix, porn actress, and escort over a fifteen-year period. She has earned an M.A. in Human Sexuality and an M.S. in Nonprofit Fundraising, and writes a self-care and wellness column for YNOTcam.com
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