Getting It is your no-pressure, all-pleasure guide to navigating the world of casual sex with clarity, respect, and confidence. Written by award-winning sex educator and author of Girl Sex 101, Allison Moon, this book empowers people of all identities and experience levels to explore hook-up culture on their own terms. From flirting and first moves to navigating nonmonogamy, consent, and sexual health, Getting It covers the essentials with humor, compassion, and honesty. Whether you're new to casual encounters or looking to refine your communication skills, this refreshingly intersectional guide will help you define your desires and approach connection with care. It even includes tips on how to recover when things don’t go perfectly, because we’re all learning.

You might like this book if:

• You want an inclusive, sex-positive guide to casual sex

• You’re curious about navigating consent, communication, and nonmonogamy

• You appreciate straightforward advice with a sense of humor

• You want a book that acknowledges a range of gender and sexual identities

You might not like this book if:

• You’re looking for a traditional relationship guide

• You prefer erotica or fiction over how-to resources

• You are not interested in exploring casual or noncommitted sex

Whether you're hooking up, thinking about it, or just want better conversations about sex, Getting It has you covered.