Rediscover erotic desire in long-term relationships with Esther Perel’s groundbreaking book, Mating in Captivity. This thoughtful, provocative read explores why maintaining passion in committed partnerships can be so challenging—and how it can be reawakened. Drawing from her work as a psychotherapist, Esther Perel delves into the cultural and psychological dynamics that often pit intimacy against desire. Whether you're single, coupled, or navigating nontraditional relationships, Mating in Captivity offers a fresh framework to think about love, lust, and connection. Perel’s compassionate and clever voice encourages readers to question assumptions about monogamy, explore the tension between security and novelty, and embrace a more erotic, emotionally honest version of themselves in love.

You might like this book if:

• You want to understand why desire sometimes fades in committed relationships

• You're interested in exploring new perspectives on passion and emotional intimacy

• You appreciate real-world insights, client stories, and a therapist’s wisdom

• You're looking for tools to rekindle or deepen your erotic connection

You might not like this book if:

• You prefer straightforward relationship advice without theoretical or cultural context

• You are uncomfortable discussing eroticism, fantasies, or sexual autonomy

• You're looking for a traditional “how-to” guide with clear-cut answers

Whether you're reading solo or with a partner, Mating in Captivity invites you to imagine intimacy not as the end of eroticism, but as a fertile space where it can truly flourish.