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An empowering guide for women ready to reconnect with their desire, pleasure, and sexual self at any stage of life. The Return of Desire by Dr. Gina Ogden is a compassionate and practical resource for women who want to explore their sexuality after trauma, relationship challenges, or simply feeling disconnected. Drawing from over 30 years of experience as a sex therapist and researcher, Dr. Ogden offers tools to help you understand what fuels desire, identify what’s getting in the way, and take steps toward deep, fulfilling intimacy. Through stories, exercises, and expert insight, this book helps readers shed outdated beliefs, engage in healing, and cultivate joy in their sensual lives. Whether you're starting fresh, healing past wounds, or looking to deepen your current connection, The Return of Desire is here to support your journey.
You might like this book if:
You're feeling disconnected from your desire or pleasure
You want a resource rooted in healing, empowerment, and expert care
You're exploring your sexuality later in life or after trauma
You might not like this book if:
You're looking for a quick-fix or surface-level sex tips
You prefer a clinical or highly academic tone over a personal and emotional approach
Still unsure if this book is right for you? Reach out or stop by and we’d be happy to guide you to resources that fit your path.
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An empowering guide for women ready to reconnect with their desire, pleasure, and sexual self at any stage of life. The Return of Desire by Dr. Gina Ogden is a compassionate and practical resource for women who want to explore their sexuality after trauma, relationship challenges, or simply feeling disconnected. Drawing from over 30 years of experience as a sex therapist and researcher, Dr. Ogden offers tools to help you understand what fuels desire, identify what’s getting in the way, and take steps toward deep, fulfilling intimacy. Through stories, exercises, and expert insight, this book helps readers shed outdated beliefs, engage in healing, and cultivate joy in their sensual lives. Whether you're starting fresh, healing past wounds, or looking to deepen your current connection, The Return of Desire is here to support your journey.
You might like this book if:
You're feeling disconnected from your desire or pleasure
You want a resource rooted in healing, empowerment, and expert care
You're exploring your sexuality later in life or after trauma
You might not like this book if:
You're looking for a quick-fix or surface-level sex tips
You prefer a clinical or highly academic tone over a personal and emotional approach
Still unsure if this book is right for you? Reach out or stop by and we’d be happy to guide you to resources that fit your path.
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