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Sex After Grief is a gentle and affirming guide to rediscovering pleasure, desire, and connection after loss. Written by senior sex expert Joan Price, this deeply personal and practical book opens up a vital conversation around sexuality in the wake of grief. Drawing from her own story and dozens of interviews with people of all genders and orientations, Joan explores how, and when, we might begin to reconnect with our bodies and others. Whether through solo sex, hookups, new relationships, or choosing not to re-engage at all, Sex After Grief emphasizes that there is no wrong way to heal. With guidance from therapists and grief counselors, real-life stories, and self-reflective prompts, this book is a compassionate companion for anyone processing the intersection of grief and sexuality.
You might like this book if:
You are grieving a partner and wondering if or how to reconnect with your sexual self
You want real stories from people who’ve experienced loss and sexual reawakening
You appreciate sex-positive resources that honor healing in all its forms
You’re a therapist or support person looking for inclusive tools to recommend
You might not like this book if:
You’re looking for a traditional grief manual that avoids discussions of sex and pleasure
You want quick-fix answers instead of a reflective, story-based approach
If you’re unsure if this book is the right fit, reach out to us at info@selfservetoys.com or call (505) 265-5815. We’re here to support your journey, wherever you are.
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Sex After Grief is a gentle and affirming guide to rediscovering pleasure, desire, and connection after loss. Written by senior sex expert Joan Price, this deeply personal and practical book opens up a vital conversation around sexuality in the wake of grief. Drawing from her own story and dozens of interviews with people of all genders and orientations, Joan explores how, and when, we might begin to reconnect with our bodies and others. Whether through solo sex, hookups, new relationships, or choosing not to re-engage at all, Sex After Grief emphasizes that there is no wrong way to heal. With guidance from therapists and grief counselors, real-life stories, and self-reflective prompts, this book is a compassionate companion for anyone processing the intersection of grief and sexuality.
You might like this book if:
You are grieving a partner and wondering if or how to reconnect with your sexual self
You want real stories from people who’ve experienced loss and sexual reawakening
You appreciate sex-positive resources that honor healing in all its forms
You’re a therapist or support person looking for inclusive tools to recommend
You might not like this book if:
You’re looking for a traditional grief manual that avoids discussions of sex and pleasure
You want quick-fix answers instead of a reflective, story-based approach
If you’re unsure if this book is the right fit, reach out to us at info@selfservetoys.com or call (505) 265-5815. We’re here to support your journey, wherever you are.
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