Sex After... is a compassionate, honest, and wide-ranging collection of stories from 150 women navigating the evolving landscape of intimacy across their lifetimes. From first relationships and hookup culture to postpartum shifts, midlife changes, menopause, illness, loss, and beyond, this book centers the real voices of women ages 20 to 88. Sex After… offers insight into the ways sexuality is affected by life experiences—and how pleasure, desire, and connection can continue or even flourish in new ways. These stories are raw, relatable, and often empowering, offering readers both guidance and solidarity. Perfect for anyone who has wondered how sexuality might change through life’s transitions, or who wants to feel seen in the complexity of their journey with intimacy and self.

You might like this book if:

• You want to hear from a wide range of women about real experiences with sex and intimacy

• You’re navigating a life transition and want support for your changing relationship to sex

• You enjoy story-based learning and personal perspectives

• You’re seeking reassurance that sex and pleasure evolve, not disappear, with age

You might not like this book if:

• You’re looking for a technical or clinical guide to sexual health

• You prefer books that use nonbinary or gender-neutral language throughout (this title is focused on cis and trans women's voices and uses "women" as its primary lens)

If you have questions about whether this book is right for you or want more recommendations, contact us at info@selfservetoys.com or call (505) 265-5815.