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"You're in the Wrong Bathroom!: And 20 Other Myths About Transgender and Gender-Nonconforming People" is a powerful and accessible guide to understanding and supporting trans folks while debunking the most harmful myths that still circulate in society. Written by Laura Erickson-Schroth and Laura A. Jacobs, this book tackles misconceptions head-on — from outdated stereotypes about surgeries and pronouns, to myths that fuel transphobic policy and everyday discrimination. It offers clear, compassionate explanations backed by medical, psychological, and cultural insight, making it a valuable resource for both trans readers and allies alike. Whether you're navigating your own gender journey or learning how to support someone else's, this book offers tools, language, and clarity.
You might like this book if:
You're trans or gender-nonconforming and want validating, myth-busting language
You're an ally looking for thoughtful, up-to-date education
You want to improve how you talk about gender identity and inclusion in your community or workplace
You might not like this book if:
You're looking for a personal memoir or narrative-style read
You want an in-depth academic textbook rather than an accessible, broad overview
This is one of the most practical and affirming books available for understanding trans experiences in real-world contexts.
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"You're in the Wrong Bathroom!: And 20 Other Myths About Transgender and Gender-Nonconforming People" is a powerful and accessible guide to understanding and supporting trans folks while debunking the most harmful myths that still circulate in society. Written by Laura Erickson-Schroth and Laura A. Jacobs, this book tackles misconceptions head-on — from outdated stereotypes about surgeries and pronouns, to myths that fuel transphobic policy and everyday discrimination. It offers clear, compassionate explanations backed by medical, psychological, and cultural insight, making it a valuable resource for both trans readers and allies alike. Whether you're navigating your own gender journey or learning how to support someone else's, this book offers tools, language, and clarity.
You might like this book if:
You're trans or gender-nonconforming and want validating, myth-busting language
You're an ally looking for thoughtful, up-to-date education
You want to improve how you talk about gender identity and inclusion in your community or workplace
You might not like this book if:
You're looking for a personal memoir or narrative-style read
You want an in-depth academic textbook rather than an accessible, broad overview
This is one of the most practical and affirming books available for understanding trans experiences in real-world contexts.
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