Whether you're in a new relationship or rekindling a long-term bond, Spark Romance: 50 Ways to Deepen Your Connection offers thoughtful, bite-sized prompts to bring you closer. Each of the 50 cards in this charming matchbox-style set invites partners to reflect, share, and spark meaningful conversations. The prompts are a blend of playful, sweet, and introspective, helping you explore intimacy, desires, and emotional connection in low-pressure ways. Perfect for date nights, cozy evenings in, or just as a screen-free way to connect, this set makes a lovely gift or spontaneous surprise. At Self Serve, we love tools that support communication, and this one is especially approachable and gentle, no prior “relationship work” experience required.

• Offers simple, accessible ways to deepen connection

• Great for all kinds of couples, regardless of gender or orientation

• Portable and compact for travel or bedside use

• Promotes open communication, reflection, and emotional intimacy

• Makes a sweet, affordable gift for anniversaries or just-because moments

Why you might not like this set:

• Not intended for solo reflection 

• Prompts are conversation-based rather than activity-based

• Some may prefer more erotic or sensual content

Want something a little more playful or sex-focused? We have other card decks and kits that explore intimacy from different angles. Let us know what you're curious about.