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Looking for a breathable, beginner-friendly gag that still brings control and kink into the scene? The Bar Gag is here to offer comfort, bite-ability, and a secure, cruelty-free fit. Unlike traditional ball gags, this bar-style silicone gag allows for more breathability and jaw comfort, making it a great option for folks with TMJ issues, smaller mouths, or anyone new to gag play. The firm-yet-pliable silicone is safe to bite down on, satisfying oral fixations while staying body-safe and taste-free.
The plush vegan leather straps are soft against the skin, while the fully adjustable buckle keeps everything in place, even during more active scenes. Whether you're looking for your first gag or want something gentler than a ball gag, this one checks all the boxes. And remember: when using any type of gag, always establish non-verbal safe signals with your partner before play begins.
You might love the Bar Gag if:
You want a more breathable, jaw-friendly alternative to a ball gag
You're interested in biting stimulation or oral fixations
You’re looking for vegan, body-safe BDSM gear
Materials: Silicone, vegan leather, polyester, nickel-free alloy, iron
Warranty: 1 year through the manufacturer
Dimensions:
• Head circumference: 16" - 25.5" (40.64cm - 64.75cm)
• Bar: 3" (7.6cm) x .75" (7.5cm) x 2cm
The silicone bar can be sterilized by washing it with gentle soap and warm water for 3 minutes. The head strap can not be sterilized but you can wipe it down with a soft cloth with some gentle soap and water and let it air dry.
If you have any concerns about how this toy may be used with specific issues around mobility or other questions not addressed, please contact us at info@selfservetoys.com or call (505) 265-5815.
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Looking for a breathable, beginner-friendly gag that still brings control and kink into the scene? The Bar Gag is here to offer comfort, bite-ability, and a secure, cruelty-free fit. Unlike traditional ball gags, this bar-style silicone gag allows for more breathability and jaw comfort, making it a great option for folks with TMJ issues, smaller mouths, or anyone new to gag play. The firm-yet-pliable silicone is safe to bite down on, satisfying oral fixations while staying body-safe and taste-free.
The plush vegan leather straps are soft against the skin, while the fully adjustable buckle keeps everything in place, even during more active scenes. Whether you're looking for your first gag or want something gentler than a ball gag, this one checks all the boxes. And remember: when using any type of gag, always establish non-verbal safe signals with your partner before play begins.
You might love the Bar Gag if:
You want a more breathable, jaw-friendly alternative to a ball gag
You're interested in biting stimulation or oral fixations
You’re looking for vegan, body-safe BDSM gear
Materials: Silicone, vegan leather, polyester, nickel-free alloy, iron
Warranty: 1 year through the manufacturer
Dimensions:
• Head circumference: 16" - 25.5" (40.64cm - 64.75cm)
• Bar: 3" (7.6cm) x .75" (7.5cm) x 2cm
The silicone bar can be sterilized by washing it with gentle soap and warm water for 3 minutes. The head strap can not be sterilized but you can wipe it down with a soft cloth with some gentle soap and water and let it air dry.
If you have any concerns about how this toy may be used with specific issues around mobility or other questions not addressed, please contact us at info@selfservetoys.com or call (505) 265-5815.
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