Lube can be the item that makes or breaks sex for many folks; having the right kind of lube will help maximize comfort, and the extra cushion that a thicker lube gives to anal play can bring many bodies lots of pleasure. Water based, silicone, hybrid, or oil based lubes can all be a a great choice as long as they are thick and have staying power. The following lubes were picked out specifically for anal play, whether you're a beginner or a pro, these are the way to go!

Communicating with yourselves and others not only helps keep things safe, but helps increase how good you feel! Learning more about your anatomy, relaxation, and caring for your butt will only help you feel confident and more connected. Keep in mind that numbing products disguise discomfort or pain--you can’t figure out what feels good and what doesn’t that way, which means you can’t accurately communicate with your partner about how you’re feeling. Considering how important communication is in this situation, it’s best to avoid them.  Stay connected to your body and you will have a good time! 

Don't expect your first time to be perfect, it puts a lot of pressure on the moment and can make your body more tense than it should be for a pleasurable experience.