Understanding exactly where this spot is important as many folks reach too far into the vaginal canal to stimulate the area. Because of the placement of this spot there are certain kinds of stimulation that work far better than others. The G Spot is connected to the external clitoris through a pathway of nerve endings so incorporating external and internal stimulation at the same time often makes the magic happen. Learning about anatomy and technique can help us understand how our bodies work in relation to pleasure. Try checking out one of our classes to learn more about the specific kinds of techniques that will work best for you and your partners.

Arousal is complicated for each of us but can often be achieved by understanding what gets our own motors running. For many, clitoral stimulation (with hands, a mouth, a vibrator, etc…) can get the blood flow moving in the right direction. Adding a stimulating gel/lube, pumping the vulva or clitoris, sensation play, erotica, or playing with toys can add to our arousal in powerful ways. The more time and energy focused on arousal during foreplay, the better! The bigger the build-up, the bigger the orgasm!

Having a few toys and supplies specifically designed for the Gspot can help us squirt! The Gspot responds best to firm pressure and shallow penetration. There are incredible toys that are designed for exactly this kind of stimulation and using them can make squirting more likely. The best toys will have a firm ridge that is designed to press 1-3 inches inside the top of the vaginal wall. Adding external clitoral stimulation will always add to the experience because that will stimulate clitoral nerve endings directly externally and indirectly internally. Using a positioning pillow can help raise someone’s hips so that the angle for gspot stimulation is ideal. Adding a blanket made just for squirting underneath play can help alleviate stress about any potential mess and help you let it flow--and it makes clean up a breeze.