Loving someone who’s kinky doesn’t mean you need to be an expert, but it does help to understand where they’re coming from. When Someone You Love Is Kinky is the go-to guide for partners, friends, and family members who want to offer support, not shame. Kink is far more common than many people realize. This thoughtful and approachable book is written for those who may not personally identify as kinky, but care deeply about someone who does. You’ll find plain-language descriptions of common kink practices, tips for non-shaming communication, and a breakdown of consent and safety in BDSM and fetish play. It also walks you through the coming-out process, helps demystify unfamiliar terminology, and provides guidance for navigating your own reactions, whether you’re curious, confused, or concerned. It’s a powerful resource for cultivating connection, trust, and open dialogue.

You might like this book if:

• You have a partner, friend, or family member who’s kinky and want to support them

• You’re looking for clear, stigma-free information on BDSM and alternative sexualities

• You want help navigating the coming-out process as a loved one

• You need language and tools to communicate without judgment

You might not like this book if:

• You’re looking for a personal how-to guide for practicing kink yourself

• You want detailed advanced techniques rather than beginner-level support

Whether you’re here to understand, to support, or just to get curious, When Someone You Love Is Kinky offers a respectful, inclusive introduction to kink and the people who practice it.