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The Boundaries Conversation Deck is a supportive tool designed to spark meaningful reflection and dialogue about personal values, needs, and consent. With 52 cards created by Dr. Faith Harper, each prompt encourages individuals, couples, groups, or professionals to explore boundaries in a safe, nonjudgmental way. From everyday situations like handling conflict with friends to deeper explorations of personal definitions of consent and deal-breakers, this deck helps you recognize patterns, practice communication, and grow in self-awareness. As a companion to Dr. Harper’s book Unfck Your Boundaries* or as a standalone resource, this deck makes learning about boundaries accessible, insightful, and even fun.
Encourages honest reflection on values, needs, and boundaries
Includes 52 thought-provoking prompts with no right or wrong answers
PG rated — suitable for individuals, couples, groups, or professionals
Helpful for therapy sessions, classrooms, or personal growth
Complements Unfck Your Boundaries* but works on its own
Focuses on communication and self-reflection, not a “game” in the traditional sense
Best suited for those willing to engage in open and sometimes vulnerable conversations
May feel too structured if you prefer casual, unprompted dialogue
Not specifically designed for erotic or romantic play
Build stronger communication and self-awareness with the Boundaries Conversation Deck, a thoughtful tool for exploring consent, needs, and healthy relationships.
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The Boundaries Conversation Deck is a supportive tool designed to spark meaningful reflection and dialogue about personal values, needs, and consent. With 52 cards created by Dr. Faith Harper, each prompt encourages individuals, couples, groups, or professionals to explore boundaries in a safe, nonjudgmental way. From everyday situations like handling conflict with friends to deeper explorations of personal definitions of consent and deal-breakers, this deck helps you recognize patterns, practice communication, and grow in self-awareness. As a companion to Dr. Harper’s book Unfck Your Boundaries* or as a standalone resource, this deck makes learning about boundaries accessible, insightful, and even fun.
Encourages honest reflection on values, needs, and boundaries
Includes 52 thought-provoking prompts with no right or wrong answers
PG rated — suitable for individuals, couples, groups, or professionals
Helpful for therapy sessions, classrooms, or personal growth
Complements Unfck Your Boundaries* but works on its own
Focuses on communication and self-reflection, not a “game” in the traditional sense
Best suited for those willing to engage in open and sometimes vulnerable conversations
May feel too structured if you prefer casual, unprompted dialogue
Not specifically designed for erotic or romantic play
Build stronger communication and self-awareness with the Boundaries Conversation Deck, a thoughtful tool for exploring consent, needs, and healthy relationships.
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