The Guide to Getting It On is more than just a book, it’s your no-shame, all-questions-welcome, totally updated manual for modern pleasure, connection, and consent. Whether you’re exploring sex for the first time or you’re a seasoned lover looking to stay informed, this new edition of the award-winning Guide to Getting It On keeps it real and relevant. It covers everything from the latest research on orgasms and arousal, to how tech, porn, and dating apps are shifting how we learn about (and experience) sex. Written with humor, clarity, and an inclusive tone, it breaks down complex topics like consent, bodies, kink, and communication without judgment or jargon. This guide respects your curiosity and autonomy, and meets you where you are, not where society thinks you should be.

You might love this book if:

• You want a comprehensive, body-positive, and shame-free approach to sex ed

• You're curious about sex, pleasure, or relationships and want well-researched info

• You’re an educator, parent, or partner looking to communicate better about sexuality

• You appreciate inclusive language that acknowledges gender diversity and modern experiences

You might not love this book if:

• You're looking for a quick how-to without the science, humor, or nuance

• You want a faith-based or abstinence-focused approach to sex education

• You’re not ready to explore conversations around porn, tech, or contemporary dating culture

From anatomy to intimacy, Guide to Getting It On is one of the most respected sex guides on the market, fun to read, easy to understand, and endlessly enlightening.