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A practical guide to creating relationship agreements that strengthen communication, connection, and care. Whether you're in a new relationship or have been together for years, Relationship Agreements by internationally renowned coach Eri Kardos offers a simple, affirming way to explore what truly makes your relationship work. This guide helps partners unpack both the spoken and unspoken understandings in their relationship, turning assumptions into clear, compassionate agreements that reflect your evolving needs. Through easy-to-follow sections filled with prompts, exercises, and real-life examples, this book creates a supportive space for exploring topics like boundaries, intimacy, household responsibilities, sex, communication styles, and more. You'll find ways to have honest conversations that build trust and closeness, even when navigating sensitive topics.
You might like this book if:
You’re looking for a structured but flexible way to talk about your relationship expectations
You want tools to support mutual understanding in polyamorous, monogamous, or non-traditional relationships
You enjoy workbooks and guided reflection that invite deeper connection with yourself and your partner(s)
You might not like this book if:
You’re seeking a theoretical or academic read instead of a hands-on workbook
You prefer completely spontaneous relationship communication without structured tools
Perfect for couples, polycules, or solo readers seeking clarity before entering a new dynamic.
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A practical guide to creating relationship agreements that strengthen communication, connection, and care. Whether you're in a new relationship or have been together for years, Relationship Agreements by internationally renowned coach Eri Kardos offers a simple, affirming way to explore what truly makes your relationship work. This guide helps partners unpack both the spoken and unspoken understandings in their relationship, turning assumptions into clear, compassionate agreements that reflect your evolving needs. Through easy-to-follow sections filled with prompts, exercises, and real-life examples, this book creates a supportive space for exploring topics like boundaries, intimacy, household responsibilities, sex, communication styles, and more. You'll find ways to have honest conversations that build trust and closeness, even when navigating sensitive topics.
You might like this book if:
You’re looking for a structured but flexible way to talk about your relationship expectations
You want tools to support mutual understanding in polyamorous, monogamous, or non-traditional relationships
You enjoy workbooks and guided reflection that invite deeper connection with yourself and your partner(s)
You might not like this book if:
You’re seeking a theoretical or academic read instead of a hands-on workbook
You prefer completely spontaneous relationship communication without structured tools
Perfect for couples, polycules, or solo readers seeking clarity before entering a new dynamic.
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