Tristan Taormino’s Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women is one of the most trusted and inclusive resources for exploring anal pleasure with confidence and care. Fully revised and expanded, this edition offers beginner-friendly chapters as well as advanced techniques for those already familiar with this type of play. Whether you’re exploring solo or with a partner of any gender, Taormino provides clear, affirming guidance to help you discover what feels good, what’s safe, and what’s possible. From busting myths to covering essential info about anatomy, communication, hygiene, safety, and trust-building, this book leaves no question unanswered. It also includes reader Q&As, tips for giving anal pleasure to men, and new sections on BDSM, health, toys, and fantasy. At Self Serve, we love this book for its sex-positive, inclusive, and empowering tone.

Why you might like this book:

• Written by renowned sex educator Tristan Taormino

• Covers everything from beginner basics to advanced play

• Inclusive of all gender pairings and relationship styles

• Clear guidance on safety, communication, and anatomy

• New chapters on BDSM, reader Q&A, and giving pleasure to partners

Why you might not like this book:

• Focused specifically on anal sex, so not ideal if you're seeking broader sex ed

• Written for a general audience, so some sections may feel familiar to advanced readers

• Not a visual or illustrated guide, mostly text-based

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