Leave a Comment · Posted on April 17, 2015
Join Albuquerque Kinksters at Spring Pan(demonium) !
The New Mexico Leather League presents Spring Pan(demonium) April 24th-25th at Hotel Cascada! Spring Pan is a gathering of kinky folks in and around New Mexico to get together, build community, skill share and play! From the New Mexico Leather League website: “We are back with a splash for this years Spring Pan! Help us […]
Leave a Comment · Posted on September 25, 2013
Ask Self Serve – No Sex in a Kinky Triad
Question: I’m in a triad, and I love both my partners. We’re also kinky, and one of my partners is submissive. We have an intimate relationship, but no “sex”. How do we fix it? — Answer: A first step toward happy, sexual loving is to find out why you aren’t having sex. Is it a […]
Leave a Comment · Posted on April 12, 2013
Ask Self Serve – Getting what you want in bed
Question: How do I warm my boyfriend up to the idea of being rougher with me? I really don’t like soft lovemaking like he does. He’s open to trying light S&M, and I just don’t know where to start. — Answer: Rough sex can be really hot! For many people it’s validating to ride […]