Ask Self Serve – Coming Out as Polyamorous

Question: I asked a girl on a date in-person for the first time. I normally do online or word-of-mouth dating, which provides this information beforehand in a straightforward way. I didn’t tell her I’m in a polyamorous relationship with a man, not on purpose, it was just a fluke that I asked her out. So when […]

Ask Self Serve – No Sex in a Kinky Triad

Question: I’m in a triad, and I love both my partners. We’re also kinky, and one of my partners is submissive. We have an intimate relationship, but no “sex”. How do we fix it? — Answer:  A first step toward happy, sexual loving is to find out why you aren’t having sex. Is it a […]