Help Self Serve’s neighborhood- vote now!
You’ll see a new widget on our blog this month. Our Albuquerque neighborhood of Nob Hill is competing for a Pepsi grant to create green alleyways. We could win $250k to light alleys with solar power and green the sad, brown landscape. There is tough competition, so we need your vote! Please vote now and […]
Dateline to Air Story on West Mesa Murder Victims TONIGHT
In February of 2009, a woman taking a walk near 118th SW and Dennis Chavez in Albuquerque noticed a strange protusion from the ground. Initial digging unearthed the bodies of eleven women who had gone missing in 2003-4. To this day, their killer has not been caught. On Friday, December 10, 2010, Dateline will air […]
The Southwest is Saucy with Sex Advice
Local Educator and Writer Julian Wolf provides sex advice in a great local column on Saucy Southwest. If you’re not familiar with the site, definitely check it out for on-demand feminist porn, sex tips, resources, links and more. Julian recently had two questions that are sadly super common at Self Serve and all over. In […]
Leather Life vs Abuse
There are many misconceptions that people in mainstream society have about people who are in leather relationships. On the surface someone in a leather relationship and someone in an abusive one carry some very intense similarities. In both relationships there are limited rights, a dominant and submissive partner, and punishments for infractions real or perceived. […]
It’s Holiday Shop & Stroll: Sneak Peek at Sales!
One of the most fun events in Albuquerque is happening Thursday night, December 2nd. The 16th Annual Holiday Shop & Stroll in Nob Hill. It’s exciting to see Central Ave, old Route 66, taken over by pedestrians, carolers, Santa, pedi-cabs, street performers and other festivities. It’s also the best time to go shopping in Nob […]
World AIDS Day is December 1st
Peter Rothberg at The Nation points out the HIV/AIDS epidemic is far from over. World AIDS Day is December 1st. In the US there are over 1 million people living with HIV and 1 in every 5 people living with HIV doesn’t even know they have it yet. You can act in your community to […]
Going Down on the Ladies: Intro to Cunnilingus
Tuesday Nov. 30th @7:30 PM to 9:30 PM $15 at Self Serve For those who want to go downtown more often, there are skills you can learn to excel in the bedroom and beyond! Oral & Manual Techniques Safer Sex Info Communication Tips Multiple O Skills G Spot Stimulation Tricks Call the store to reserve […]
CUFFS Meeting: Citizens United for Free Speech
Sunday, Dec. 5th @6pm at Self Serve Citizens United for Free Speech are holding a planning meeting on Sunday, December 5th. We are going to attend the Albuquerque City Council meeting on Monday December 6th at 5:30pm. for more updates, friend CUFFS facebook page. inspired? shop http://selfservetoys.com/resourcecenter
THANKSGIVING COUPON
We are grateful for you, our customers and community. Enjoy our gratitude with more pleasure for less. Get 30% off any Self Serve purchase this Thanksgiving weekend. The coupon code is valid online or in our Albuquerque store.Mention this deal while you shop Small Business Saturday November 27 or use online until November 29 at […]
Molly explains Silicone and Water-based Lube
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My Leather Journey
My name is Keli I am a Master identified lesbian in a 24/7 relationship with my slave. We have been together for over 8 years. But I started out quite a different person, and I am amazed where my leather journey has taken me. When I was 25 I was in a very abusive relationship, […]
Re-post: Navigating TSA Policies for Trans People and Survivors
There is lots of fear and concern going around since new TSA procedures are quietly changing. Please read this trans-friendly explanation of TSA policies and familiarize yourself with the requirements and options. As the blog notes, “If taking to the skies is the only travel option, Connecticut Sexual Assault Crisis Services recommends survivors familiarize themselves […]
Albuquerque Store SALE
Up to 50% off at the shop through November 29th! Discontinued sex toys, gifts, LGBT pride stuff, DVDs, toy bags and more are 20% off – 50% off now. inspired? shop http://selfservetoys.com/resourcecenter
The Arousing Scent of Pumpkin Pie
This report from my new favorite news provider, WPBF of West Palm Beach, tells of new research on scents that turn men on. A study published in Medical Aspects of Human Sexuality showed that pumpkin pie and lavender arouse men up to 40% more. I enjoy the giggling news casters as they report that the […]
Transgender Day of Remembrance & Events
Every year on November 20th, people around the world remember those killed due to hatred and ignorance. In our binary and sometimes tragically hateful world, transgender people are murdered simply for being who they are. Transgender Day of Remembrance is an important time to remember these victims. It’s also a time to raise awareness about […]
Rockin’ Sex Ed from MTV
MTV Shows I like this guy. It’s rad that MTV with all its pregnant-teen-mom shows has hip and accurate sex ed info online! I’m down to see rock stars giving sane advice about safer sex. inspired? shop http://selfservetoys.com/resourcecenter
It’s MOvember! Grow it out for men’s health
I just learned about the awesome movement of Movember. Every November men around the world grow their moustaches for men’s health awareness. Yay for healthy testicals and prostates! Boo cancer! It’s not too late to start growing yours and spreading the word. I also recommend prostate massage for a healthy body! inspired? shop http://selfservetoys.com/resourcecenter
The big reveal!
Our new website is almost ready! Enjoy this sneak peek! You know you can’t wait. You’ll enjoy faster navigation, easier menus, easier class sign ups and a big sale of the week! inspired? shop http://selfservetoys.com/resourcecenter