Toy Parties & Private Workshops

A Self Serve toy party makes a great bachelorette party, birthday party, or girls’ night out.

Self Serve toy parties are about more than just shopping. You and your friends will learn sex tips, anatomy, safety tips and more! Your party can be customized to cover topics like the G-Spot, Sex Toys 101, Body Treats, Toys for Your Guy, Keeping it Hot in a Long Term Relationship or whatever whets your palate. Self Serve provides an educational and fun sex toy party experience, presenting and explaining toys, lubes, resources and sex tips. A popular idea for a classy bachelorette party, Self Serve features down-to-earth and honest info about sex. Unlike most toy party companies, earning a commission is not on our agenda. There are always games and giveaways, but no pressure for you to buy. We can provide custom party favors for any budget upon request. Toy Party events are offered in Albuquerque and surrounding areas. For events elsewhere in New Mexico, contact us.

Most Self Serve Toy Parties are free!

Party LocationPriceIf sales are…
Self ServeFreeMore than $300
Self Serve$100Less than $300
Your HomeFreeMore than $400
Your Home$200Less than $400

After reaching $450.00 in sales the hostess receives 10% of the total sales as store credit. Our average party sales are $500.

If sales are lower or you don’t know if guests will shop, this is a perfect option. There’s always the option of having each person pitch in to pay for the event.  Think of it like a private party with a cover charge. The more guests that attend, the cheaper the price per person!

Full Service Private Workshops

Our full-service workshops are customized, educational events for private groups. Self Serve workshops provide a unique and memorable event for a birthday, dinner party or your workplace. This a great option if you want a private workshop for friends or an educational presentation in a professional setting.

We do trainings and workshops for medical providers, LGBTQ groups, nonprofit organizations and university student groups. Various Self Serve Sex Educators have experience teaching diverse topics to many different audiences.  Our goal is to contribute relevant sexual health information to your staff or organization. Product sales are optional at our full-service workshops.

Private Workshops We Offer:

  • Interactive BJ Skills
  • Sex & Aging
  • Anal Sex & Pleasure
  • The G-Spot & Female Ejaculation
  • Finding the Big O: The Female Orgasm
  • Keeping it Hot in a Long Term Relationship
  • Cunnilingus: Muff Diving
  • Strap on Sex 101
  • Transgender 101
  • Sex Toys for Medical Use
  • Talking to Patients about Sex

Pricing for Private Workshops

Up to 10$250
21+Call for pricing

After reaching $450.00 in sales the host or organizer receives 10% of the total sales as store credit.

Want to book your Self Serve Toy Party?

Toy/Bachelorette Party Reservation Form

Fill out this form if you would like to schedule a toy party or bachelorette party at Self Serve or in your home. We'll call or email you to confirm your reservation. If you have any questions, feel free to call us at 505 265 5815.nThank you!nSelf Serve Staff
  • As the Hostess/Host, you receive 10% of the total sales from the party as store credit to use at the party, or in the store at a later date.
  • Please leave a phone number where we can leave a message.
  • Please give us 1-3 possible dates you would like to host the party.
  • Please let us know what type of event you would like to schedule.
  • Please let us know whether you would like the party to be in the store (after business hours) or at a house.
  • Please give us the address of the home where you would like the party to happen.
  • Please let us know how many people you anticipate being at the event.
  • We charge a $50/hour waiting fee if we arrive at your house and have to wait for more than 20 minutes for your guests to arrive. Please have your guests show up before the educator shows up to avoid the fee. If you cancel your party less than 72 hours in advance, you will be charged a $50 dollar reservation fee.

Call: 505-265-5815

To reserve your party we need:

  • Your preferred toy party date and time, preferably 2 weeks or more in advance
  • A credit card on file to book reservation
  • 48 hours notice or more for any change or cancellation
  • Any cancellations within 48 hours of event are subject to $50 cancellation fee. Thanks for your understanding.

Toy Party Planning Tips

Planning an in-store party at Self Serve?

Party times are available outside store business hours. Times fill up quickly so book early!

Our business hours are:
Monday-Thursday 10-7 pm
Friday-Saturday 10-8 pm
Sunday 12-6 pm

  • We provide a table for refreshments, water, and chairs for your guests.
  • Please arrive on time and bring whatever you like for a great party. We suggest ice, refreshments, plates, silverware, cups, napkins, snacks and anything else you need to serve your drinks and food.
  • Please allow at least 30 minutes for set up before guests arrive.
  • If you plan on serving alcohol, we need you to have assigned designated driver(s) to safely get you to your next destination. Anyone drinking should bring an ID. We just want to make sure everyone’s safe as the night rolls along…

Planning a party at home?

What we need for a smooth operation…

  • Good directions to your house and an exact address- Make sure we have your phone number in case we get lost!
  • A table or other surface to set up samples of toys, lotions and other fun stuff
  • A room where all guests can be seated comfortably and see the goods on display.
  • A private room or area where we can take orders one-on-one with each guest.

Guests should be present at your party at least 30-45 minutes before the presentation is scheduled to begin. This will ensure that guests have some time to say hello, get a drink, and be ready to learn about sex when the fun begins!

Purchases can be picked up at the store, or you (the hostess) can pick up for all of your friends. Additionally we’re happy to ship any purchases for $5 flat shipping via USPS priority in discreet, private packaging.

To help you plan a successful party…

  • Let your friends know what to expect. Send them a link to our website ( in your invite, or talk it up at an earlier gathering.
  • Ask friends to bring potluck style snacks. You shouldn’t have to do everything yourself, and food goes great with talkin’ about sex!
  • Check in with your guests a few days before to remind them about the event. Ask if there are any special requests, and pass that onto us along the way.