Feeling Virtually Connected, Yet Alone
Just pondering the brilliant juxtaposition of how the internet and modern technology can help me feel totally connected to people all over the world, yet at the same time I can be sitting quietly at a computer, totally alone. It’s an odd reality. The world can feel so small, yet far away. Connections are like […]
Pleasure is All About the Senses
We are so lucky as humans. There is potential for pleasure in every sense we possess. I smell pine trees all around me as I walk on a forest floor of needles, and I’m taken back to days at summer camp walking through the grove. I taste black sea salt sprinkled popcorn ice cream and […]
5 Reasons for a Prostate Massage | Prostate Cancer: By the Numbers | Prostate Cancer
5 Reasons for a Prostate Massage | Prostate Cancer: By the Numbers | Prostate Cancer I love that the human body can heal itself and find pleasure at the same time. Two more reasons for men to explore prostate massage: preventing prostate cancer and relieving impotence. inspired? shop http://selfservetoys.com/resourcecenter
Hello Sex-Positive Friends!
Hello, Self Serve(d) Blog readers! My name is Sera Miles, and I’ve been kindly asked by Molly and Matie of Self Serve to contribute to this blog. It is a pleasure and honor to introduce myself to you today. I have been a kinkster for as long as I can remember, long before I knew […]
Bedtime Stories
Introduction Does the world really need more erotica online?! I have no idea, but you’re here reading mine so apparently there’s something you’re interested in. What is it? Do you want to hear about my exploits in graphic detail so you’ll have something to masturbate to? Do you want to learn some new techniques or […]
Sexy Resources
I am so proud of our resource links at Self Serve. We can’t help but share all the amazing sex and relationship resources online. So don’t let them go to waste. Learn something new. Garner trivia to impress your friends. Find community for all sorts of folks. The newest links on our site are for […]
The Censorship of Sex Positive Facebook Gets Attention
I am proud and pleasantly surprised at the growing attention on Facebook’s unfair censorship. The Self Serve page was disabled, Violet Blue’s Our Porn, Ourselves Page was disabled, and now folks are talking about it on Jezebel, Carnal Nation and even in Psychology Today‘s blog. I was just thinking how Matie and I didn’t mean […]
The amazing Form 2 from Jimmy Jane
The Form 2 is the newest, powerful, rechargeable vibrator from Jimmy Jane. This lovely, quiet vibrator is strong, waterproof and has lots of functions! It’s become a best seller at Self Serve. If you want a strong, eco-friendly and quiet vibrator- this is a great pick. I especially like how it spins around with the […]
You Don’t Need Labiaplasty
This is the video that got Self Serve kicked off facebook! Watch and share widely, please! The human body should not be censored. All labias are beautiful, and you don’t need cosmetic surgery. After a video on labiaplasty made thousands of views on youtube, we at Self Serve felt the need to respond. Vaginoplasty and […]
Firefighter’s Widow is Sued Because of Gender
A firefighter dies and his wife is sued by his family. The family of Thomas Araguz III, of Wharton, Texas claims the couple was separated. They want to strip her of death benefits because of her transgender status. We can’t say for sure what their relationship was like. We can’t know the inner workings of […]
Studying Sexy New Mamas…
Self Serve is all about the sexual well-being and satisfaction of new mamas. We talk to parents everyday about how tough it is to bring the sexy back after baby. In addition to the significant challenge of added fatigue and stress, changing body image can be an issue. Too often, moms are seen as, or […]
They can be Your Lesbian Radio, too…
A loving shout out to Donna and Denise of My Lesbian Radio! Matie and I had so much fun talking to them on the show last week. It made me feel all mushy and proud to be on an internet radio show with thousands of people all over the country listening. The lesbian diaspora if […]
All Aboard the Penetration Station!
I own a sex shop. I love having lots of toys and accessories around the bedroom for a good time. But it’s rare that a new sex product is brilliant enough to become an item I use almost every time I do it. The Penetration Station really just makes me want to yell, “Choo, Choo!” […]
More Sex Ed, Not Sex Drugs…
Every day at Self Serve we help women and men with sex and relationship challenges. We put a sex positive spin on peoples’ outlooks. We encourage education, trying new activities and honest communication. It’s amazing how these sex and relationship skills, skills no one is taught in school, can do wonders for boosting ones’ sex […]
Awesome new adjustable, rechargable vibrator: G Ki
Check out Matie’s Review of the G Ki, the latest in rechargeable vibrator technology. Available at Self Serve Available at Self Serve inspired? shop http://selfservetoys.com/resourcecenter
We are feminist and we love porn
Violet Blue is leading the way for sex-positive feminists that love porn. This weekend a conference in Boston is aiming to stop porn culture. The feminist sexuality educators at Self Serve would rather see porn revolutionized.http://selfservetoys.com/resourcecenter/ inspired? shop http://selfservetoys.com/resourcecenter
PORNOTOPIA FILM FESTIVAL CENSORED
Albuquerque’s Pornotopia Film Festival is on hold until further notice. The city has made it clear any show we put on could be cited and we opted to postpone all events. Please read the full story at our blog and share widely. 2011 Update at KOAT 2011 Update at KOB TV Read our timelinebelow […]
Sex ed is critical to the under 18 set
When we teach sexuality workshops or visit classes at University of New Mexico I always survey students on their sex ed experience. I ask how many had sex ed in schools. The response ranges from 5% to maybe 25%. These are adults, born in the late eighties, mostly having attended abstinence only sex education. Then […]