Pornotopia Call for Submissions for the 2014 Festival

Call for Submissions for the 2014 Festival   Pornotopia Film Festival is gearing up for its fifth year of celebrating the beauty and diversity of sexuality. The call for submission has begun and any interested filmmakers can submit their content via Pornotopia’s website through June 30th, 2014, to be featured in the festival in Albuquerque, […]

Toy Review Tuesday: Seebinger Hemp Lotion

New Product: Seebinger Hemp Lotion Price: $12.95           The Reviewer Said:  “It smells AMAZING without being overpowering. It absorbs quickly into the skin and lasts for hours, and it feels great. With regular use, my hands are rarely chapped. I wish I had a bottle in every room of my house […]

Toy Review Tuesday: Power Pump Set

New Product: Power Pump Set Price: $109.95             The Reviewer Said:  “I loved watching my clit get bigger! It makes for awesome foreplay. You can take off the pump while leaving the tube over your engorged clit. Then you can flick the tube and feel sensation on the clit. Yum!” […]

Learn the Sex Secrets of Albuquerque!

Self Serve recently surveyed over 500 Burqueños about their sex lives.  We found out all kinds of bedroom secrets and sex facts.   In honor of masturbation month, Self Serve wanted to bring often-taboo sex secrets into the light.  People may not talk about sex openly, but we found out what is happening behind closed […]

Toy Review Tuesday: Chubby G Vibrator

New Product: Chubby G Vibrator Price: $39.95     The Reviewer Said:  “I felt the low, thudding vibration in my vagina really well. It was so strong I needed less clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm. The girth was great and overall it gave a really satisfying experience. “ Features: Silicone massager and ABS plastic […]

Doingitonline.com: featuring sex positive porn with a trans female focus

Tobi Hill-Meyer launches Sex Positive Porn Site with a Trans Female Focus! Doingitonline.com is the exciting new edition of Tobi Hill-Meyer’s award-winning feminist porn.  This new, hot, membership site is a collaboration between handbasket productions and trouble films.     From the site: This website will continue to provide the unique combination of explicit sexuality […]

Toy Review Tuesday: Sea Grape Massage Oil

New Product: Breathe Easy and Exotic Fields Bath and Body Oils Price: 4oz $13.95 | 8oz $24.95       The Reviewer Said:  “It’s a light, dry massage oil, not thick like shea butter. It provided a nice glide, though I needed to reapply. I love the scent.”Breathe Easy: Eucalyptus, rosemary and peppermint Exotic Fields: […]

Self Serve en Español – La Vida Sexual Después de Trauma

Pregunta: ¿Cómo puedo empezar a recuperar mi sexualidad después de años de abuso y humillación? Quiero una vida sexual sana, pero no sé qué es eso. — Respuesta: Gracias por recurrir a nosotros con tu pregunta. Una de cada cuatro mujeres en Nuevo México son sobrevivientes de alguna forma de abuso sexual. El número de […]

Pornotopia 2014

Save the Date! Pornotopia Film Festival 2014 November 14-16, 2014 The Guild Cinema Albuquerque, NM More details coming soon.

Toy Review Tuesday: Pulse

New Product: Pulse Price: $104.95           The Reviewer Said:  “The orgasms! Holy fuck! I knew I liked vibrators but this … made every orgasm super-intense and increased the duration of them two- or three-fold.” Features:  Five patterns One  year warranty Rechargeable Waterproof Materials:  Body-safe silicone and stainless alloy

Self Serve en Español – ¿Qué quieren las mujeres?

Pregunta: He leído que las mujeres quieren un hombre que sea dominante, emocionalmente distante y consumido por un deseo insaciable por ellas. También he leído que a las mujeres no le atraen los amantes respetuosos y sensibles. ¿Crees que esto es cierto ? — Respuesta: Gracias por la pregunta. Los medios de comunicación tienden a […]

Toy Review Tuesday: Vi-Bo Hand Orb

New Product: Vi-Bo Hand Orb  Price: $19.95           The Reviewer Said: “My favorite part of this toy was it’s ease of use during finger and hand sex. I also loved how this toy was easily integrated into foreplay, so for people who like toys that don’t take up much space or […]

Ask Self Serve- What Are Self Serve Classes Like?

Question: What are your classes like and who comes to them? Are they just for couples or can single people attend? — Answer: Part of Self Serve’s mission is to offer adults sex education they find engaging, shame-free, frank and fun. We teach topics ranging from oral sex, BDSM, and polyamorous lifestyles to sex and […]

Toy Review Tuesday: Frolic Lubricant

New Product: Frolic Lubricant Price: 1.7oz $10.95 | 3.3oz $14.95               The Reviewer Said:  “Perfect viscosity—not so thin it was hard to handle, not so thick it didn’t go where it was needed. It’s slippery without a need to reapply. It lasted as long as I needed it and […]

Ask Self Serve – Coming Out as Polyamorous

Question: I asked a girl on a date in-person for the first time. I normally do online or word-of-mouth dating, which provides this information beforehand in a straightforward way. I didn’t tell her I’m in a polyamorous relationship with a man, not on purpose, it was just a fluke that I asked her out. So when […]

Take the Self Serve Shame-Free Sex Survey!

Take our shame-free sex survey and be a part of history! Let’s find out what’s really going on in the bedroom (or anywhere else!) You’ll get a 20% off discount as a reward.  

Toy Review Tuesday: The Everlasting G-Spotter

New Product: The Everlasting G-Spotter Price: $49.95                   The Reviewer Said: “I found the sensation of warm, smooth ceramic unique and unexpected. The warmth of the toy was better than glass or metal because it didn’t shock my body when I first started to use it.””The bumps […]

April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month – Help Self Serve Support Survivors!

April is sexual assault awareness month, and throughout the month, Self Serve will be taking donations for the Rape Crisis Center of Central New Mexico. Visit us in the store to donate!   On Friday April 4th, Matie and Molly appeared on 2 Kasa This Morning to talk about our  “Sex and Self Love for […]