Self Serve’s Gift Guide
Whether you’re treating yourself, a lover or even your mom, Self Serve has a gift for everyone on your list. It might seem strange to do holiday shopping at a sex shop, but then again, we’re not your typical sex shop. We hear all the time from our customers that we have some of […]
Pregúntale a Self Serve: Durar más en la Cama
Pregunta: Recientemente, me encuentro llegando al orgasmo sólo minutos luego de comenzar el sexo. Soy capaz de durar mientras recibo sexo oral, pero tengo poco control durante el coito. Antes solíamos tener sesiones de sexo que eran maravillosas y largas. He intentado muchos métodos ( comienzo/ pausa, tópicos desensibilizadores, condones, etc) con poco éxito. Me […]
Ask Self Serve – Toys for Prostate Stimulation
Question: I would like to try the Disco Booty for prostate stimulation. This would be my first time and I’m not sure what to do so that I would not make a mess? — Answer: Thank you for your question! For those who don’t know, the Disco Booty is a great beginning anal toy. It’s […]
Join our Super Community Sex Toy Reviewer Team
Self Serve prides itself on only offering the best products in the adult industry. That means that before we decide to sell a product, we have it tested and reviewed. It’s our little joke that we have bad sex so you don’t have to! Now we want to extend an invitation to community members who […]
Self Serve en Español – Pregúntale a Self Serve: Eyaculación Femenina
Pregunta: Soy una mujer que eyacula y en muchas ocasiones me pongo muy húmeda y no puedo mantener a mi pareja adentro. ¿Cómo puedo minimizar la humedad para que el momento no se interrumpa? — Respuesta: En primer lugar, queremos felicitarle por su capacidad para eyacular. Es algo que muchas personas quisieran lograr, es muy […]
Ask Self Serve – Lasting Longer in Bed
Question: Recently, I find myself coming a few minutes after I begin sex. I’m able to last when receiving oral sex, but have little control during intercourse. We used to have long, wonderful sex sessions. I’ve tried many methods (start/stop, topical desensitizers, condoms, etc) with little success. I jack off a few times a week […]
Pornotopia 2013 Schedule and Set Synopses
Pornotopia 2013 is just around the corner and we’re very excited to announce the sets for the Nov. 1st show Friday Nov. 1st at The Guild Cinema. Tickets and full festival passes are available at Self Serve (3904b Central Ave. SE, Albuquerque, NM 87108) 4:00 FTM & BEYOND OMG Beyond gender and infinitely sexy Non-stop […]
Win Pornotopia Raffle Prizes!
Win The Most Fun Raffle Prizes Ever! Free memberships to the CrashPadSeries The Freestyle OhMiBod Music controlled, rechargeable vibrator Gift Certificates to Free Radicals, Mannie’s Restaurant, Betty’s Bath & Day Spa, Birdland, B2B Bistronomy Restaurant Kinky restraints & toys from Sportsheets’ Sex & Mischief line Duke City Derby Merch Tickets to Experiments in Cinema with […]
Violet Wand Safety Guidelines
Electrical play with a violet wand can be super fun! It is also a serious undertaking and one that you should research thoroughly before the sparks fly! Here are the tips we put together for our customers. Any electrical play has inherent risk, and there’s plenty of information about violet wand safety. Some of it […]
Pornotopia Film Festival Brings Porn Back to The Guild Cinema
Pornotopia Film Festival Brings Porn Back to The Guild Cinema After a triumphant victory at the New Mexico Supreme Court, Pornotopia Uncensored 2013 is just around the corner! In celebration, Self Serve is hosting a kick-off party on Oct. 26th at 8pm that will include a raffle, door prizes and a free pre-screening of […]
Jobs Posted for Feminist Field Organizers!
Job Announcement: Campus Field Organizers Feminist Majority Foundation Get Out Her Vote Campaign The Feminist Majority Foundation is seeking feminist college or graduate students, and recent college graduates to work as part-time or full time as campus field organizers as part of our non-partisan Get Out Her Vote Campaign at the University of New Mexico and Central NM Community […]
Respect ABQ Women Conversation @ Self Serve
Join Self Serve, Young Women United and Respect ABQ Women for a discussion on the Nov. 19th ballot measure that is designed to limit access to safe and legal abortion in Albuquerque. Find out what you can do to help defeat it! Self Serve will host a gathering on Oct. 9th at 7:30 pm to […]
Ask Self Serve – No Sex in a Kinky Triad
Question: I’m in a triad, and I love both my partners. We’re also kinky, and one of my partners is submissive. We have an intimate relationship, but no “sex”. How do we fix it? — Answer: A first step toward happy, sexual loving is to find out why you aren’t having sex. Is it a […]
Pornotopia Ruling Delivered – And We Won!!!
New Mexico Supreme Court sides with Pornotopia Film Festival and Free Speech Pornotopia Film Festival won. The NM State Supreme Court decided in a 4-1 decision that The Guild Cinema & Self Serve Sexuality Resource Center have a right to host Pornotopia Film Festival. The court was clear: hosting one erotic film festival, on one […]
Ask Self Serve- Being Dominant in the Bedroom
Question: My boyfriend and I recently came to a sort of halt in our sexual relationship. He has been very open and wants me to be more aggressive and take charge in the bedroom. The problem is, I have no idea how. I get nervous, and worry he won’t like the things I do. I’ve […]
Testing Locations for Sexually Transmitted Infections
New Mexico Department of Health 2400 Wellesley NE Albuquerque NM 87107 | 505.841.4100 | nmhealth.org | Services: Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Hepatitis (A, B &C), Herpes (I & II), HIV (oral swab) & Syphilis | Prices: Free or sliding scale Planned Parenthood of New Mexico 3625 Central NE Albuquerque, NM 87108 | 505.265.3722 | plannedparenthood.com | Services: STD testing, treatment, and vaccines, HIV testing | Prices: Based on insurance Same Day STD Testing 8403 Constitution […]
The Beginner’s Guide to PC Muscles and Kegel Exercises
The Importance of Kegel Exercises The pubococcygeus (PC muscle) is the hammock-like muscle that supports your organs and internal genitalia, it stretches from your pubic bone to you coccyx. A strong PC muscle is the key to more intense orgasms, and greater urinary control, as well as helping to ease labor pains. You can achieve […]
Sexual Assault Survivor Resources
Sexual Assault Survivor Resources Alb. SANE Collaborative | 505.883.8720| 625 Silver, SW – 2nd Floor Albuquerque, NM 87102 | http://www.abqsane.org/ | Services: Triage and Intake, Medical/Forensic History, Medical Exam – head to toe, Forensic Exam (sexual assault evidence kit), Forensic Photography, Pregnancy Prevention, Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI) Prevention, Referrals, Follow-up services, Testimony (Confidential and free and available 24 hours a day -In most […]