Either way, we hope this information helps you to relax and have some fantastic fun!
The prostate is a small gland tucked below the bladder, and is commonly compared to the size of a walnut (the author of which most likely enjoyed a Fancy Nut Assortment amidst an intimate date). The prostate surrounds the urethra (which is why swollen prostates can make one need to pee more frequently) and can be massaged somewhat outside the body but the strongest sensation comes from an internal massage.
Yes, internal… which means its time to start relaxing your rear!
Use a smooth, thick lubricant like Maximus or Slippery Stuff Gel. Keep in mind your butt provides no lubrication, so add your own! Start soft and if it feels nice you can always make it a little more vigorous. Think of relaxing the muscles in and around your butt. You might be surprised how much tension you feel. Those muscles help hold us upright all day and are one of the first places we squeeze when we’re stressed or nervous. Your butt deserves a relaxing vacation. That’s what this is all about.
Once your butt feels sufficiently romanced (which could be a while… be patient and enjoy!), it’s time to try some internal fun. Just slide your finger (or a small toy like the Butty plug, the Joy Stick or Nexus Glide) in slowly. Don’t rush things! Breathe deeply and calmly. You may feel a few jumps in tension, especially if you’ve never done this before, but just remember that you’re doing this for fun and for yourself. If it hurts, stop and try massaging yourself a little more and adding some more lube. This shouldn’t be painful!
Generally speaking it can be found within two to three inches if you press gently towards the front of the body. It might take a moment or two to find, so make sure you do this at a time when you don’t have to rush anything. If you are doing this to your partner, you should be searching for a walnut-sized firm bump and always keep talking to your partner to find out how he’s feeling. You might know when you find it by a sudden gasp, which is always fun! If you’re trying to do this to yourself, look for the same signs but you’ll probably know when you’ve found it.
So now that you’ve found it, what do you do? Go out for ice cream? I suppose you could, but you may find a gentle massage a little more rewarding. You can always get ice cream, after all.
Exploring your butt and prostate fun may be something for many future encounters or only special occasions – you decide. A simple, gentle, lubricated anal massage may be a new relaxing activity for you and stimulating that prostate may be a whole new way to reach rocking orgasm.
Your butt does not lie. If something hurts, stop it. If you want smaller, gentler, harder, wetter, bigger or whatever -make sure to share that with your playmates! Most of all remember to have fun.